If a provider is reviewed on here and another site should I at least feel safe that she is not LE?

that the Lady reviewed IS the Lady you will be seeing, then yeah, chances are she's not LE.

If a provider has only one review on each site, and both reviewers have only one or two reviews, all recent then I would bypass her just in case.
If there are many reviews on one or each site, then you are pretty safe. Reviews over time do make me more comfortable.
However, never take LE for granted. They can be savvy.

Nothing in this hobby is 100%. Stay with the higher percentages on the safe side.

She has a total of 5 reviews.  all of the guys on the other site have multiple reviews of providers.  One of them about 15 reviews.  I am not VIP so I cant check here.

at least 4 or 5 reviews from established reviewers--meaning hobbyists with reviews over time) the chances of a problem are diminished.  Remember, there is no such thing as a sure thing.

I would also suggest becoming VIP. For the nominal cost, it could erase almost all doubt.

You guys know the whole review sometimes frustrates me no end, I almost gave up on TER because of it. LOL. But what I really wanted to say as a side note is:

The seasoned reviewers aren't always seeing the newer girls. Everybody seems to forget (not you-I'm talking in general) that they all started somewhere, the hobbyist and the providers. I dont know how many reviews my one little reviewer her on TER wrote but I believe he wrote many and I'm sure that a few of the other straggled reviewers of me have written some too, but I keep getting the wait for more reviews.

I'm going to see another newbie that joined a verification site on my behalf and he WILL write a review when I ask because he is new and doesnt know that it wont be an option, but that review WON'T REALLY COUNT, although he was and will be more thoroughly verified and I am definitely not LE.

I guess I just joined in to rant (something that I don't do often enough). So here's to reviews! May many some in the near future!

Oh, Keystone, I just piggybacked in on your post because I am comfortable communicating with you.

Have a good night guys. And in reality, if a guy's fear is LE, you all gave good advice.