Providers - I have been wondering about this for a while...
I often have specific clothing requests which is difficult for the providers to accommodate because they own what they own and it may not be exactly what I want. I have recently purchased a pair of thigh high PVC boots with a lace tie on the side so it is adjustable.
I spend so much time trying to be the perfect client I am often afraid to let loose and tell the provider what I want. I have this thing for rhinestone chokers with rhinestone waist jewelry and thigh high PVC boots. I bought an outfit [yes I would hand wash the PVC panties after every date and bring brand new socks] but have been afraid to bring this up. I recently asked a lady at an agency what shoe size the two providers wear that I was interested in and said I would like them to wear shoes I like and she did find out for me. In general, is this an acceptable request or a pain in the butt for the provider? It seems harmless enough and with the right lady those boots and the rhinestone jewelry would really turn me on!
Also, in general, would a hair grab during doggy [not yanking, just grab] or a head grab during a BJ with my taking over gently for a few seconds be something I could do during the heat of the moment or is it something I should communicate before hand or during that I would like to do that? Or the fact that while in doggy I like them to turn back so I can see their face.
I'm really not into weird stuff, its just that I'm often afraid of what the provider will think. It just seems like good fun to me but there is definitely a fear of the unknown. I have always been conditioned to believe you cant say anything while on a date but I have over 10 provider okays and would just like to know how and when to communicate my desires so I can get the most out of my time spent with a lady. Any comments would be appreciated.
If the reviews of a well-reviewed provider sporadically state that the provider had toys at her in-call, and a hobbyist wanted her to bring toys on an out-call, should he ask her bring her toys? Imagine a statement to the provider: "Great, I'm glad that we could arrange an appointment. FYI, I like toys." Will she think that the person is LE? It appears the consensus is that if someone talks about specific sex acts, a provider will walk. Is mentioning toys going to get her to cancel the appointment?
and all you need to do is ASK! Most gals have a very nice wardrobe and are VERY accomodating with clothing requests.
In your case I would let her know in advance of what you are bringing for her to try on and model for you. There is nothing wrong with this (as it has NO sexual undertones) and she will know what to expect upon her/your arrival. Frankly, I have seen gals ads with this exact type of garment on. But for many it would not be a staple in their wardrobe collection.
The only issue could be the PVC panties, and I know you "wash" them, but a gal might be a tad concerned about the cleanliness. And she might want to put them on over someting of hers. But each gal is different, and if that was the worst case scenario, I'll bet you could live with that 
As far as the toys, let her know that as well. Don't go into a narrative of what you want to do with them, simply that she could/you could bring them to the session.
There is no reason to be shy here. There is nothing that you will suggest/ask a gal to do that she hasn't heard before. And if it is something she isn't comfortable doing, better to know in advance and find one that you will have FUN with. Remember...this is all about YOU!
And read her reviews carefully...many of these issues may be brought up in a review.
Good idea Jayalee. I wish I was still working in Vegas as a second market. You are my type! If you ever make your way south to PHX I would love to meet you 
come to Vegas for a visit!Will do and I hope it all works out for you!
Posted By: surlyboy
Good idea Jayalee. I wish I was still working in Vegas as a second market. You are my type! If you ever make your way south to PHX I would love to meet you
In terms of doing things "in the heat of the moment," you could always ask in the moment before you do things or if you want them to happen. Getting consent removes the unknown.
Everyone's different, and people have different comfort levels (personally, I like getting my hair pulled and dislike getting my head grabbed during a BJ if I don't know it's going to happen beforehand, it interrupts my flow!), but you never know unless you ask. And wouldn't you rather find out by asking nicely than by getting her reaction after the fact if you inadvertently do something that she's not into?
Communication is always good if you are going to do something you feel the provider might not be prepared for, i.e., just randomly bringing PVC clothing. There is nothing weird about asking in a general way with your requests. Bringing or you providing toys, clothing, accessories, etc. To me, the request to wear those things seems pretty tame and of no consequence. (as long as everything is clean and disinfected between users....) If it enhances your time all the better. The line gets drawn, as another posted mentioned, by going into somewhat long essay on what you would be doing with those items Just leave that for the session.
As far as pulling hair, etc. - I would say just do what comes natural. It is your session and if the provider isn't o.k. with a little hair pull or whatever comes next she most likely will lead you in the right direction. However, IMO, if it is a GFE then things should just kind of flow and not necessarily have to be discussed with each change in position.
Good luck, have fun and stay safe!
Summer
Clothing requests are never a problem, BUT, if I don't have a specific item on hand & it's not in the "norm", I request the gentlemen to purchase it. I will not wear "used" outfits, washed or not.. boots, sure, but everyone has a different shoe size, so that could get complicated. And if you're looking for toys, either ask if she has them, OR,if you want to buy it yourself, make sure it's still in an un-opened package when she arrives... I've actually had gentlemen who had their own toys that they used on multiple providers & thought it was OK as "they washed them between uses"....
What I have encountered with gals and toys is the application of a condom on the toys. Even when it is their toy, all of the gals have placed a condom on it (even when only used on the lady).
I got some different reasons from the ladies as to their reasoning on this, and they all made sense to me
There shouldn't be any reason you couldn't discuss clothing before meeting. I've even gone out and purchased something I didn't already have (on my dime, since I will be keeping it).
But, I don't like those "what do you like?" or "no-no" conversations on the couch. Not only do such conversations often preceed LE busting through the door, but nobody does that during a social hook up. You just start things up and talk about things as you go. Ask about each thing you aren't sure of as you want to do it.
Any discussion of toys prior to meeting would make me double my reference-check efforts and put me on edge. I'm not sure if the suspicion of your intentions is worth the conversation.
