Very new to this, have tried the "search" function to no avail.

My question is this: if a provider prefers "mature, older men"  do I cut it, being 31 if provider is early 20s?  I contacted her via her email. Or at this point do I not worry about it?  She never asked for my age or anything.

Thanks!

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are like a lot of hobby terms, somewhat meaningless.  I suspect the provider in question wants to keep away the 19,20, 21 age group. "Young" clients have a stereotype of wanting to pound providers into the mattress.  

I left me early 30's a long time ago, so I more than qualify for "mature older men" There are  hobbyists in your age group who don't have a problem seeing providers, just remember, behave like a gentleman and don't be a jerk and you should be fine.  

Bottom line, it's up to the provider to decide if 31 qualifies for "mature older men" just remember don't take it personal, if she declines your approach. As the saying goes, just move on.  

 

I, too, left my30's behind long ago, but your advice is spot on as usual.  It IS all up to the provider as to who she wants to see, whether it's based on age, race, etc., it's her choice.

Swim

Yep. For a 19 year old, 31 is probably "mature" lol. For a 40 year old provider, not so much. I like em in all ages, personally. It depends on the person and how they conduct themselves. I've noted several men over 50 on TER who write and act like 12 year olds.

you stand a good chance of hooking up no matter what you age is, within reason, anyways.

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Thanks for all the responses.  She already agreed to meet me, but my age was never brought up.  I didn't want to show and have her suddenly put off.  If it was because of looks I could deal =)  Just didn't want to waste both our times.    It's a body rub/massage appt.  Figured I'd start slow.  Thanks again!