I am very new to this, i have made the choice to become a provider. I want to establish clients, and to be a well reviewed provider. Im 27yrs young, and an african american female. My questions are as followed, how to start when im not finacialy fit? Would men like to see a black woman as a provider? How to post an eye popping ad without showing my birthday outfit? How to screen properly? Im not willing to do oral activities,none, are there men who will be willing to see me anyway? Wow alot i know, but id be grateful for help. P.s ive already read boards, and i felt i didnt have my questions satisfied. Thank you again

To start, you need to post an on some ad site, then you can post an ad here on your regional board once every 7 days.  An ad on here has to have al link to either a personal website, or an ad somewhere.

Second, hobbyists here see ladies of color all the time, there is a market for black providers.  As far as your reluctance for oral activities goes, that will limit the guys who will be interested in seeing you, but if that's your preference, it's your choice.  I'm sure there will be some guys who will be interested in you.

The ad you decide to post is totally up to you.  Many guys do not need to see a lot of explicit pictures, but do want to see what your body looks like.  An ad w/o some nudity will probably not make an eye-popping ad to many guys, but, again, it's your choice on what you want to show.

I hope this helps, Tayla.

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There is a segment of men that relish your offerings. Advertise to the niche that you will serve. Don't put ADs out that lie. Be honest about services that you offer and about your age and weight. You can wear full clothing in your ADs as long as you are not trying to hide unattractive stretch marks or tattoos. I love pictures of women in black, red or grey-blue, form fitting dresses as long as those dresses mate well with their looks. I love elegant stockings that have no runs in them. The key is to show off what you offer.

I met a guy who had a friend who was a provider doing incall massage only. He introduced us and she shared what she knew about advertising and getting started. Once I got started doing incall massage following her advice, I branched out to outcall and started meeting others in the hobby and got a lot of feedback and advice both from guys and ladies.

I started asking and listening to what guys said about what they did and didn't like in other experiences and adjusted my approach accordingly. So the key to being well-reviewed is to target your market, find out what they want, and make sure they are happy with you.

Don't try to emulate others who are well-established and thinks that's how it's done. They didn't start off that way. It takes time to build a reputation that can command a higher rate.

There is suuuuuuuuuch a range of taste in women. But it's important that your pictures are a true representation of you or you may get bad reviews because the guy likes something different than what you are in person and he felt misled. Draw the men who think you are their type so they think you are hot as hell when they meet you.

One of my first pictures (just cell pix) were at an angle that made me look very thin (anorexic, I was told). After I put up new pictures that showed my curves, I was surprised to hear guys tell me later that they didn't want to see me before because I looked too skinny! Funny! My clients like busty, curvy, mature women... I would likely get bad reviews from guys who like something different.

And one key thing so many don't understand... the older the guy is, the more interested he will likely be in feeling a connection. The "journey" becomes more important than the destination as a guy gets older. Most older guys don't like to feel rushed to the "finish." They will likely feel dissatisfied with your service if you do that. Slow down and let them enjoy you and you will get more good reviews and regular clients.

And any other newbie Providers that need a Ho Mentor...lol