I can't help because I don't see an ad. Especially if they won't allow it.

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?boardID=33&Messageid=75544

if you can't post it, we can't read it.  BPS pointed you in the right direction to the self help center section on ad guidelines.  I also recommend you read the entire thing, it has lots of helpful info.

As a newbie, you should also introduce yourself on your local regional board, start replying to posts.  When you get a review, you can ask for limited VIP membership so you can use the PM system and read the juicy details of your own reviews.

LLAP,
Swim

If you would like, please PM me a copy of what you tried to post and I will do my best to help.

The most likely reason is a lack of the TER banner on your web site, but there could be other reasons as well. We are a friendly bunch on this board, if you feel more comfortable asking another lady, Debbie or Jaydalee  have both been known to be quite helpful. Actually if it were up to me, one of their names would be in red to help pick up the slack from the provider POV

Think about this: The OP is a newbie. She saw FAQ for Newbies and probably thought she was writing to admin. She may not realize we who answer here, are all just members like her.

To the original poster. Definitely check out the link BigPapasan posted for you. TER is kind of picky about their ads. It is not that complicated but you do have to follow their procedures. Chances are once you read that, you may find out what you are doing wrong. You can also click on "myTER" at the top of the page, and then click "mymessageboards." There you should see your post and a reason why it was denied. If you are still unsure, you can use "contact us" at the bottom of the page and ask the TER staff for an explanation.  

Also, do check out the self help center as swim mentioned (ignore the other part of his post. You already have your review profile linked to your handle which means you already have the Limited Provider VIP)

Feel free to come back to this board to ask questions.

If you go to My TER then, under the More tab, click My Board Posts so you can see everything you've attempted to post. A moderator will list the reason why your ad was not accepted. I know I did not include my website link on my first post which kept my ad from being posted. Hope that helps!!