Hi Everyone,  Some advice please.  I'm in the Boston area and many of the ladies i'm interested in a from a service that is currently under a client freeze.  To compound this, I'm a newbie, so I don't have any references from other providers.  I tried emailing and calling the main contact, but to no avail.  I understand their position, but just hoping for some suggestions.  Thanks.

Dude, you need to move to New York right away!  Of course, you'll have to leave your Red Sox cap in BeanTown.

See the post above this one about joining a referal site.

Also, contact providers you are interested in and tell them in a sincere and brief letter why you feel you should be a client of theirs.  Indication of maturity will often lead a gal to take a chance on you.

Best wishes and please remain a Sox fan.

Really good advice, as always, from MrF (not about the Red Sox part, though).  I recently had my first experience with a provider in many years.  I joined p411 but had no references.  At first, the provider said she couldn't see me without them but she was very helpful in suggesting other providers she knew who might.  I was friendly and grateful in my replies and she continued to help.  Then, having gotten to know me better, she decided she'd see me.  I won't divulge her name because it would piss off others who've been turned down by her for not having references, and she's a long-time provider known as being a rigorous screener.  In the end we both had a great time.

Thanks everyone.  I'll hold onto the Red Sox hat and try the letter suggestion.  I already wrote a brief email, but will try a second time.  Thanks again.