Hi all,
thank you for taking the time to try to help me out. BRAND NEW TO THIS. I assume that girls that have a website and a number of reviews on this (and other) sites are the most legit and secure people to contact? I’m still paranoid about trying this and I’m looking for the least likely problematic encounter. Make sense? Thanks again.
Quest

Look down a few threads to see the "how many reviews?" discussion.

A provider with 5 or more reviews by hobbyists who have reviewed several other providers is less "problematic" than a provider with 5 or more reviews all written by first-time one-time reviewers.