Hello, I'm brand new to TER and looking to learn more about being a hobbyist. One thing that has made me a little hesitant, though, is my age.

I've been browsing many of the providers in my area and noticed that a good amount of them request that donors be age 35+ or 40+. I'm only 23 myself. Will this limit my options in finding willing providers?  

I've had a strong attraction to 35+ women for a while and it's the main reason I've taken interest in the hobby, as ladies in this age bracket would otherwise be unavailable to me. I hope my age won't be an obstacle

when I started.  Let me tell you it will limit your options of finding providers. I am 33 right now, and I still get rejections here and there as it relates to my age.  

Some women don't want young guys because they act immature, end up falling in love or develop feelings for hookers, sometimes there are issues with short changing.  When you approach a provider, you might want to be upfront about your age. Don't lie or try to hide it.  It is what it is.  

What really worked for me was getting approved by agency and seeing the agency girls. But those days were good old days in DC area and people were not paranoid about agencies, and the feds had not started busting hem to the extent that they are now. And most agencies employ younger women anyway. So kind of a moot point with you, but if you want younger women that "might" be a viable option to go depending on where you are. Might being the operative word here.

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Be respectful, mature, and professional  in your communications and you should be good.  Ditch the text speak and use complete sentences.  I did that and when I first met the last one she was very surprised that I wasn't an older gentleman.  You're not deceiving if you are merely conveying that you are mature enough not to act like an asshat when you're together.

to my previous reply, I would still be respectful of any age limits explicitly stated.  There are plenty of ladies out there with no such requirements.

I suggest if you want to hobby...  stay away from the youngest providers...  There are plenty of MILFs in the 20 +/- range that are sexy & hot...  and not afraid you'll think that you're in love with them.

but previous posters have given you good advice.  How you approach the ladies you want to see will have a huge effect on whether or not they will see you.  So do as advised above, but be prepared to be turned down by some.  If you act as advised, I'm sure you will find some providers who will see you despite your age.

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Try posting a respectful, articulate ISO on your regional board. I'd be willing to bet that at least a few ladies who typically have age minimums would take a chance on you based on your ability to form a cohesive sentence. Just be willing to be screened and you should be able to find someone. Best of luck!

She does not mind young gents.

I meant to suggest 30 +/- age group, not 20.  

It helps us provide better service if we're selective about our clients.  I don't see men under 30 because it creeps me out -- I wouldn't be comfortable.  There's tons of mature ladies who see men in their 20's and you aren't going to have a problem finding one.  Don't just fixate on the one or few gals out there who would rather not and move on.  Good luck!

She makes a great point...  you are not picking your future wife.  Yu are picking a pleasant companion for a interlude.  I'd even suggest postponing seeing your 'perfect' choice.  You'll be too nervous.  And your idea of a perfect choice may change.  

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Mostly from what I have read is the way they hobby as in BCD. Some get rough, want to fuck for the entire time,  out to prove something.

The young guys I see usually view me as a peer and treat me as such. It's usually the older guys who get out of line.