I have many of the same problems.
1) Loose the weight, or at least some of it, you will feel so much better!!! Thanks to stomach stapling, I've gone from 420 to 260, and am having so much more fun. Two rounds are now the norm, not the exception, and three rounds have been known to happen. I have a friend on this board with a great weight loss plan. He sets a target, and when he reaches it, he treats himself with a visit to his favorite lady. Talk about incentive!!!
2) If you want be sure that you have extended time inside her, do it in round one!!! My pattern, and a common one in reviews, is round one is a BJ, preferably BB, until, again preferably CIM. Given that it is easier to force the issue by mouth or hand, if you have any doubt about getting it up enough to enter her in round two, make sure you achieve what you want in round one.
3) If you have the funds, book a longer visit. They are so much more relaxed, and allow much more recovery time. If this is not possible, then when scanning reviews, look for ladies who provide "no rushed sessions", and are not a clock watcher. This is probably the best advantage of seeing an indy, instead of an agency lady. On a number of occasions I have gone overtime because we were having fun.
Be safe, and HAVE FUN!!!
jazz32
BTW, how was game 7 of the cup final? I now live in England, where the game was shown live at 1:30 am. Unfortunately, I fell asleep before it started, and only know the final score.
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