I am looking for an outcall on those dates.  First time doing this.  What can I do if I am asked for a reference?

No magic wand or secret word is available here for you.

Often a provider can sense that a noob is a noob, and if he is being straight with her. The more honest you are with her the better your chances.

I for one seldom do although I give them as long as the gentleman calls me ahead of time.

Find a provider with many reviews and give her the information she asks to verify you. Usually name, address,work info. That could be enough for her to be comfortable with. Be honest an don't play games...

Now most agencys would want the same info so that could be another choice.

Whatever your choice do get your info out soon. Maybe try 3 or 4 ladies.

Kisses Haley