First, I'm not a girl. But that won't stop me from replying.
Hey girls,
I am a neglected hubby who gets zero fellatio love. So I look for providers who provide BBBJ and a CIM variant.
When I find one that already has reviews that info is generously provided for me by TER.
However when contacting someone who doesn't have reviews yet, I never know how to ask if this is on the table because most providers say "no explicit phone calls". So my question is, when calling a provider, how do I verify that this is an option in a way which will be well received when she hears me ask it?
How would you want to be asked this question?
Thanks,
Jiz
Put it in your profile... done
I want to thank those that answered. I was a P411 member until 6 months ago. I just renewed my membership. I just wish I knew how to smoothly broach this subject with providers that aren't on P411 (and there are lots of them including some that are new to this and don't even know about it or TER).
this becomes a mute point.
I am not a newbie. I've been doing this since 2002, but when I contact a new provider I don't know how to phrase this question.
...there was a reasonable assumption that you were asking as a newbie.
Do the research, use local review sources, TER, back channel communications with other members who have reviews in the area you want to play...there are many ways to find the info you're seeking.
I posted in General Discussion, a Mod moved it to the newbie section.
It is a newbie type question. That is why it got moved here.
First, I'm not a girl. But that won't stop me from replying.
However when contacting someone who doesn't have reviews yet, I never know how to ask if this is on the table
If your potential date has VIP, ask her to read your Juicy Details, "especially my reviews of Alice and Carol, and you'll get the idea."
If she does not have VIP, "I know you can't read my review details, but the Provider Profiles for Alice, Barbara and Carol clearly show the things I look for. The Profiles of Debbie, Evelyn, and Faith say "No" in certain categories and I didn't enjoy myself as much."
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3. If you're lucky, after you are verified, she'll ignore the "Read my reviews" plea and simply say, "Just tell me what the fuck you want instead of sending me on a scavenger hunt!"
Oops! Thanks, PS. I forgot about all of the non-VIP limitations.
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