If you enjoyed your time, great! If she enjoyed her time, great! If she's just so damned good at acting that you couldn't tell if she came... great! It really doesn't matter. Let go of the O pressure and just enjoy your experiences! Enjoy yourself, do what you can to help ensure your friends are enjoying their time too, enjoy the enjoyment they share with you.
Not to be a buzz kill, but even rape victims have come during their assaults. An orgasm is a physiological response to stimuli, not the end all be all sign that someone actually enjoyed their encounter.
Also, please don't speak of providers as different from "women" - can you imagine coming to a discussion board and asking if women actually enjoy having sex, if they have real O's?! The answer would be the same - some do, some don't. Sometimes yes, sometimes no.
I had my first session with a provider the other day, and it was awesome. I "forgot it was a service" and, while I don't think she did, I do think she enjoyed herself.
I appreciate that it is probably expected for providers to put on a bit of a show and I think it contributed to my enjoyment that she seemed to be enjoying it. So as far as the "quality of the experience" whether she was faking doesn't matter that much to me as I know I enjoyed it.
Still, it raises the question of whether providers actually cum from activities with clients with any regularity. I'm asking out of a mixture of curiosity and vanity. Do providers generally like having sex with hobbyists? Does it vary hugely? Is it a close your eyes and think of England/$$$ type thing?
I'm sure this has been discussed before, likely several times. If it has, more than happy if someone who's been around longer or has better search skills points me in the right direction, however I couldn't find a thread.
not always. Many of them are good enough at acting, you would not know if they did or not. I'd say this, if she says you did a good job with your tongue, accept the compliment and not worry about it anymore.
If you enjoyed your time, great! If she enjoyed her time, great! If she's just so damned good at acting that you couldn't tell if she came... great! It really doesn't matter. Let go of the O pressure and just enjoy your experiences! Enjoy yourself, do what you can to help ensure your friends are enjoying their time too, enjoy the enjoyment they share with you.
Not to be a buzz kill, but even rape victims have come during their assaults. An orgasm is a physiological response to stimuli, not the end all be all sign that someone actually enjoyed their encounter.
Also, please don't speak of providers as different from "women" - can you imagine coming to a discussion board and asking if women actually enjoy having sex, if they have real O's?! The answer would be the same - some do, some don't. Sometimes yes, sometimes no.
Also, please don't speak of providers as different from "women" - can you imagine coming to a discussion board and asking if women actually enjoy having sex, if they have real O's?! The answer would be the same - some do, some don't. Sometimes yes, sometimes no.
Thank you for the thoughtful response. I agree with much of what you wrote. Particularly on orgasm not being the only measure of an encounter.
The last bit I quoted above I sort of disagree with though. I didn't intend to differentiate providers from "women" broadly in my post, though I get how it might seem implicit in the question. I apologize for that implication.
I suspect we agree that the aspect of a provider's life discussed on this site is obviously only a part of the whole and that providers (and hobbyists ) are people. Acknowledging that, it seems to me there are enough differences between an encounter with a provider in a "professional capacity" and the same woman in a more purely personal one that my question is perhaps more reasonable in the professional encounter than the personal one.
If the answer is that, like a personal encounter, women's experiences as providers vary on this dimension, that is useful information and I appreciate your and other responses saying as much.
After seeing my ATF for over a year, I think I can say she enjoys the Sessions with me. It's not just the Sex. It's the overall Atmosphere of the Session. Prior to the Session we take a Shower together. she gives me a Back Rub, then we go at it. Non Rushed and no Upselling whatsoever. She's Super Sweet and so darn Adorable.
If you enjoy watching simulated pleasure then they'll prob oblige if they're given cues.
The reality is prob that the vast minority of provider o's are real but some more still could have enjoyed it. But does that really matter? Don't let the thought detract from your enjoyment.
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I had my first session with a provider the other day, and it was awesome. I "forgot it was a service" and, while I don't think she did, I do think she enjoyed herself.
I appreciate that it is probably expected for providers to put on a bit of a show and I think it contributed to my enjoyment that she seemed to be enjoying it. So as far as the "quality of the experience" whether she was faking doesn't matter that much to me as I know I enjoyed it.
Still, it raises the question of whether providers actually cum from activities with clients with any regularity. I'm asking out of a mixture of curiosity and vanity. Do providers generally like having sex with hobbyists? Does it vary hugely? Is it a close your eyes and think of England/$$$ type thing?
I'm sure this has been discussed before, likely several times. If it has, more than happy if someone who's been around longer or has better search skills points me in the right direction, however I couldn't find a thread.
you to figure out if a provider is faking it or not.
Most of the time, not always, I can tell if the provider is getting the real orgasm.
When we go for a second round, I do the DATY, if she is super wet, it's most likely (not always) that her cum has dribbled down and now you are licking it. I have confirmation at that point that she did indeed have an orgasm.
Have I been fooled? Yes. Do I lose sleep over it? Nope!
Bottom line, as long you have enjoyed your encounter with the lady and the lady seems to enjoy it as well (fake or not) and she says, 'Honey, please see me again', then I know that she would not mind seeing me again. Now, if she says 'See you' and slams the door on you, then you don't see her again and mention that in the review.
I just assume the girl is faking it in order to put up a nice Hollywood act for me, unless she starts squirting all over the place. Unless I'm missing something it seems it is very very hard to fake squirting
I love sleeping with "friends" and consider myself lucky. I'm in no way implying others don't. For me its the entire process, mood, taste, smell etc. My sex drive is high and the newness of the first meeting, is a real turn on.
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) are people. Acknowledging that, it seems to me there are enough differences between an encounter with a provider in a "professional capacity" and the same woman in a more purely personal one that my question is perhaps more reasonable in the professional encounter than the personal one. 
