Most gals have a wardrobe that wouldn't embarrass you...just make sure she dresses appropriately.  

As for being "seen"...why care?  I take it she won't be sucking you in public, unless that's what you're actually seeking.

That is the favorite part of my sessions...taking a lovely gal out for lunch.

If you're wondering if anyone is going to notice...let's hope so  

Don't fret over what anyone else is seeing...I trust they are just people watching and really don't care very much.  No different than if you tried to identify anyone 10 minutes after leaving a restaurant....I doubt you could describe anyone in particular...let alone care.

I was at dinner with a lady, only my second time with a provider, and was out of town. Sure enough, friends of mine sat down right next to me and I was freaking out. I had to make up a quick story,and the girl I was with pulled it off very well. I was scared shitless, but I saw them afterwards and they were like "I don't know why you were freaking out?".

Great experience for your second time no?

That ought to shut them up right quick.

8o)

But seriously, if you are that paranoid about it, then why do you go out in public with them?

If you really want to dine with them, get room service.

I'm 61, and I'm always taking out pretty young gals to the nicest places in town.  On occasion I've gotten the stink eye from a matronly lady or two who seem to know what I'm up to.  I just smile right back at them to let them know they're right.

I just love it too.

Just act natural, make sure she is dressed appropriately, and no one will probably give you a second look.  Guys looking at hot chicks happens all the time, and it's no big deal.  As long as she isn't dressed like a hooker, it should not be any trouble.

Swim

We have to be very careful. She likes to shop and have dinner near her place.She pretty much knows everyone in her neighborhood. So if we're seen together by people she knows, it could get her in alot of Trouble with her Family.

Overthinking...

I think you are over thinking the dinner or lunch date with a provider.
Many ladies know how to adapt to their social surroundings so I am sure she would be dressed appropriately for the situation.You can't control people from staring you never know why they are staring.
I could care less if anyone looks at me and the gent I am out with.
I am there to spend time and share a meal with a gent and could care less what the public thinks or what they think they know.Have fun and good luck to you.