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London Rayne See my TER Reviews 221 reads
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One of the ladies I screen for just had this happen, and you can about guess where I told him to shove his shit. He gives me some name with no email, phone number or website, and when I respond back asking who this person is and how I am supposed to contact her with ZERO info. his reply was, "Look, I know you have to be safe, but so do I...I have options you know." Ok, then why did you bother giving me a name in the first place idiot, if you were not going to tell me how to get in touch with her? I then spent the next half hour explaining to him what a reference was and why us ladies are happy to provide them for the most part. Still no go...he had an attitude, so I told him to try the truck stop.

brilove1949 reads

I was recently contacted by a guy who says he has references but prefers to not use them ... He likes to keep things private. When I said I really need them to verify him for my safety and security, he said "do you really need them?" Ummm YES I DO! I am and will be surprised if this has actually worked on the ter providers (whom he says he has seen)?  

Don't worry ... I will not see him unless he provides the references.

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JennaCovelli471 reads

These are great sites that verify for you and you do not need provider refs.....

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brilove366 reads

Yes I am on both of them but he is not ... He did come through with a good reference and now I will invite him to both.

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swimtrekr416 reads

You are not obligated to see any guy that asks for a date.  If he won't provide the necessary screening info, don't see him!!!!!

Swim

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keystonekid505 reads

compromise either your screening methods or your menu offerings--regardless of what some guy might say. Your safety needs to be number 1.

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London Rayne222 reads

One of the ladies I screen for just had this happen, and you can about guess where I told him to shove his shit. He gives me some name with no email, phone number or website, and when I respond back asking who this person is and how I am supposed to contact her with ZERO info. his reply was, "Look, I know you have to be safe, but so do I...I have options you know." Ok, then why did you bother giving me a name in the first place idiot, if you were not going to tell me how to get in touch with her? I then spent the next half hour explaining to him what a reference was and why us ladies are happy to provide them for the most part. Still no go...he had an attitude, so I told him to try the truck stop.

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