Fairly new to the provider scene, but have jumped in head first, having seen five providers in the last month (one twice).  Two of my encounters were top-notch, one was good, one was fair, and two were not worth my time (see all my reviews for details).  The two I didn't enjoy were because the providers did not pass muster with me visually; I should have walked away, but like a wuss, I didn't.  What's the etiquette for walking away?  Maybe my fear is unfounded, but the reason I stayed on both occasions was because I didn't want some irate, scorned provider calling me on my cell phone, especially since the significant other picks up on occasion if my phone is lying around.  Is my fear unfounded?

recent, and accurate. If they are, and you like the pics, walking away should not be an issue.

On the other hand, if you get bait and switched, or the lady looks nothing like her pics, you have a right to kick her out the door, or walk away. This won't happen if you do your TER due diligence. Get TER VIP, if you don't have it!

I have had them be a little pissy as I left, but not calling me for days. Actually if I do not know the lady I make a copy of her picture and put in my pocket. More than once the one answering the door was not the lady in the picture or the picture was taken in the late 80's or early 90's. So I just pull the picture out and say I am sorry but I was looking for the lady in the picture, that will usually shut them up.

What's the etiquette for walking away?  Maybe my fear is unfounded, but the reason I stayed on both occasions was because I didn't want some irate, scorned provider calling me on my cell phone, especially since the significant other picks up on occasion if my phone is lying around. ..


Number One... get a hobby phone..20 bucks a month ..Put a co workers name on the case and leave it under your seat...OFF..

Number Two..if you get to the room and it is clearly bait and switch just say "I am sorry there is a confusion I am at the wrong ladies room"..

What do you mean by "put a co-worker's name on the case and leave it under your seat?" about an extra phone? Doesn't the provider already have your cell number once you've made the appointment? And what is putting a name on the case about?

...and this should illustrate why I've not done outcall since my first hobby experience (which was b4 I even discovered TER).  Stick to incall, especially if you're a newbie or have a S.O.

I do mainly outcalls and I've been wondering if this would ever happen.  My pics are recent, but there's always the chance that my look just won't "do it" for a fellow.  If I'm seeing a new friend, I stand in the foyer and ask if I may take off my shoes...  I feel that this gives them a chance to say "Sorry, but you aren't quite what I'm looking for.  Keep your shoes on and please leave."

Thoughts?

And learned a bit about your personality here on the boards. Somehow, I just can't imagine anyone telling you to leave for ANY reason---be it looks or personality.

The co-worker's name is to cover your ass if your S.O. finds it (i.e. you must've brought home your co-workers phone by mistake).  Re-read his entire post; he starts out with S.O. concerns.