Hello! I just had my first experience "hobbying" ("hobbying"? "with the hobby"? Can this be a verb?) with an agency outcall provider. If anything, she exceeded my expectations in terms of her looks (stunning), attitude, talents...you name it. She was fantastic. And I think she deserves another great review, in addition to the great ones she has already, if only because she only has a few and I know she's fairly new to this herself.

The first time can be really stressful but it is just great to know that she did everything in her power to provide stellar service. and that the issue wasn't chemistry or her demeanor. I would perhaps ask her via email or whatever way you've communicated with her if she would like to get a review. Reviews are not just a vehicle to state that she is great, stunning and skilled, they also serve to legitimize providers and tell our community that you recommend her because she was professional, safe and picture accurate.  You can also see her again in the near future and then write the review, but I think any alternative would be consider fair towards her.

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Email her and ask her if she wants/needs the review. If she doesn't want one, no problem. If she wants a review, give her a "fantastic" one and don't bother to mention that you didn't pop. You indicated it was not her fault.

her directly. Therefore, the decision will be yours. If she met your expectations in almost every respect, then she deserves a review that is commensurate with her talents.  

I agree with everyone else, write a review and leave that part out. I am just adding my 2 cents since I have been through this recently. My first time I was really nervous, so I had a lot of trouble. I was finally able to release...whew was I relieved. Second girl I was less nervous, but pretty much the same thing. I felt bad because I made both of them work so hard.

With what everyone has written thus fare, we are only human and I'm sure it's happened to many of us in normal situations... If you enjoyed her book a repeat session....

When you read a review where a hobbyist claims 3 pops in an hour session, plus multiple O's for the provider, even assuming it is not a complete exaggeration, do you think you will have the same results with the provider when you've never popped more than once in your life during a sexual romp? The results are not as important as the overall experience and the lasting impression that you have from the encounter. Personally, I look at the reviews for an indication as to whether the providers photos are accurate, the attitude and atmosphere that the provider brings to the session, the type of activities that she will engage in, her attentiveness and interest in the hobbyist, wether she is really engaged in the session, etc. if a review is positive in all these respects it definitely piques my interest, and I could care less if the hobbyist had an O. The inverse is also true. Look at some of the real bad reviews and while the hobbyist ultimately pops, he nevertheless pans the provider and actually warns against using her.

as you said she tried everything possible.  I have had situations where it wasn't going to happen, totally on me.  I asked for & got a hj finish.  My Favorite gals know me pretty well...  at a certain point they have my agreememt to "do what ever it takes" to get the pop.

I agree on the part about reviewing the provider and not yourself. If she was gorgeous and was great during the session then people who read it should see it that way. It wasnt due to lack of effort from her so I say there shouldn't be any harm there, and you should rate her performance based on her effort.

Thank you all for your incredibly helpful responses. I'll write her an excellent review, leave that one detail out, and indeed take a few of your suggestions for avoiding a similar performance issue in the future!

Hey dude, thank you for explaining that my failure to maintain an erection was my fault. I had absolutely no idea, and I definitely needed you to tell me that I'm the problem, not her, because it's not at all like I said that repeatedly in my own original post.

that said she didnt/couldn't "finish" the job. That is, I would not hold it against her.

Any session you have it is up to you weather or not to review and what to include or omit.  Of course there are conditions it won't get published, such as a de-listed lady.  You may want to take in consideration if she wants or does not want reviews.  Still it is your decision.

maybe comment about your problem... but, list the many things she did to help you get to the point where you came! reviews should be truthful & I highly doubt that any guy will look down on her because of what happened to you! just make sure you state clearly that the problem was not because of her! then give her a 9 for performance!!... sounds like that's what she deserves!!!