at the door & the bed...  that would be when you go wash your hands & anything else that needs washing.  You might get in the shower but only critical places get a real wash & the rest is just a quick rinse.

I would simply go with the flow. You are obviously clean enough for her, why stop the fun unless it's for your own benefit if you happen to feel like you aren't your freshest.

I am like you in that I try to shower right before heading over for an incall, and then I do shower again, mainly to reassure her that I am clean, before starting the real action, but if she "attacks me at the door" then to quote a phrase "who am I to refuse?" and I most certainly go with the flow without a second thought about taking a second, unnecessary shower.

Showering.

To add more intensity to the session, before we play I shower with her. It adds more fun to the session. We lather up and soap each other off. Then we play. Nothing better than playing after getting out of the shower.

Within the first few minutes of the greeting hug and kissing you can tell if a person smells nice or not, so if you just showered before getting there, then just go with the flow. But if your ass stinks then she will most likely offer the shower.

When I would see someone coming from work, I'd insist on a shower first.  

But now I see gals on the weekend, and shower from home, so it is not an issue.  
No one has asked me to shower first, but if she asked, I'd have no problem complying.

I always greet, grope, and kiss maybe, drop off the donation and go to the bathroom to do some business and wash my hands. I never shower at the location, because I shower immediately before I go, unless the lady mentions it. If she makes a point of saying something like "There's a shower if you like," then I at least go through the motions and emerge in a towel.

I like to be SURE my hands are queaky clean...   "You want to put your fingers WHERE?"

I like to jump into kissing, hugs and some play right away...but then I politely ask ..."If you want to freshen up...", because then we can both play freely

Then I want you to jump in the shower.

Once I tasted the difference, I wanted freshly washed all the time. And too many people have lied about how recently they've showered.

Please just a do a quick wash of this area then come to me wrapped in a towel.  It doesn't take much longer than washing your hands, or it shouldn't.

And I can tell when some of you don't use soap or just turn on the water and fake it completely. Why would you do that? It embarrasses me to have to ask somebody to go get back in the shower.  I might not be as enthusiastic about my fellatio if youre not nice and clean.

 
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