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Re: Showering.
happy.merchant 1152 reads
posted
1 / 17
Shower When She's Jumped Your Bones and Shows No Interest in Stopping

While I'm not a newbie this question has been on my mind for a while so I figured I'd ask for opinions here since the answer may help new folks:

I have made arrangements with providers who are clear that they want hobbyists to shower upon arrival.  And I think it's only right that I be clean with great breath when the fun starts.  But more often than not, when I walk in the door (always clean and with great breath) the provider is all over me and we just start kissing and getting naked and it seems as if she has absolutely no interest in me breaking away for a shower -- so while I have settled down into a nice relationship and probably won't be doing any hobbying for the foreseeable future, I am wondering, at least in retrospect, what the right thing to do is in a situation like this - do you go with the flow if she is totally into you, not pointing toward the shower and telling you to 'go' lol, esp if you know you're clean? or do you break the mood and tell her to stay right there as I'm gonna shower?



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harborview 10 Reviews 402 reads
posted
2 / 17
There's a pause between the Greeting

at the door & the bed...  that would be when you go wash your hands & anything else that needs washing.  You might get in the shower but only critical places get a real wash & the rest is just a quick rinse.

GaGambler 375 reads
posted
3 / 17
Unless you feel "grimy" and in real need of a quick "freshening up"

I would simply go with the flow. You are obviously clean enough for her, why stop the fun unless it's for your own benefit if you happen to feel like you aren't your freshest.

I am like you in that I try to shower right before heading over for an incall, and then I do shower again, mainly to reassure her that I am clean, before starting the real action, but if she "attacks me at the door" then to quote a phrase "who am I to refuse?" and I most certainly go with the flow without a second thought about taking a second, unnecessary shower.

ROGM 349 reads
posted
4 / 17
Showering.

To add more intensity to the session, before we play I shower with her. It adds more fun to the session. We lather up and soap each other off. Then we play. Nothing better than playing after getting out of the shower.

FreedaNipple 13 Reviews 258 reads
posted
5 / 17
I think its a precaution for those with a funk

Within the first few minutes of the greeting hug and kissing you can tell if a person smells nice or not, so if you just showered before getting there, then just go with the flow. But if your ass stinks then she will most likely offer the shower.

happy.merchant 236 reads
posted
6 / 17
Re: Unless you feel "grimy" and in real need of a quick "freshening up"

Great advice! Thank you!!

NoYellowEnvelope 380 reads
posted
7 / 17
+1 - This interlude also gives the provider a chance to...

... check the donation, if she wants to, without being obvious about it.

The other reason I like this approach is it lets the provider know my hands are freshly Sanitized for Her Protection.  :)

mrfisher 112 Reviews 219 reads
posted
8 / 17
Cleanliness is next to Godliness,...

When I would see someone coming from work, I'd insist on a shower first.  

But now I see gals on the weekend, and shower from home, so it is not an issue.  
No one has asked me to shower first, but if she asked, I'd have no problem complying.

darmody 22 Reviews 220 reads
posted
9 / 17
Always

I always greet, grope, and kiss maybe, drop off the donation and go to the bathroom to do some business and wash my hands. I never shower at the location, because I shower immediately before I go, unless the lady mentions it. If she makes a point of saying something like "There's a shower if you like," then I at least go through the motions and emerge in a towel.

OldCodger 230 reads
posted
10 / 17
Re: Showering.

I TOTALLY agree - one of my favorite foreplay activities.  But, in my experience, many (or even most) providers won't participate - "will ruin my makeup", or "I just finished showering", or "can't ruin my hairdo".  Not to worry, I respect their right to set limits.  And some will on subsequent dates if it is planned ahead.

ROGM 262 reads
posted
11 / 17
Re: Showering.

Posted By: OldCodger
I TOTALLY agree - one of my favorite foreplay activities.  But, in my experience, many (or even most) providers won't participate - "will ruin my makeup", or "I just finished showering", or "can't ruin my hairdo".  Not to worry, I respect their right to set limits.  And some will on subsequent dates if it is planned ahead.
 
The provider I'm currently seeing loves to shower before we play. The first time we showered she asked if I'd like to join her. Who am I to say no? Ever since then showering has become part of our playtime fun. Her hair and makeup are no issues for her. She just applies her makeup and dries off her hair after we play.

harborview 10 Reviews 221 reads
posted
12 / 17
Soft soap...

I like to be SURE my hands are queaky clean...   "You want to put your fingers WHERE?"

AngieB See my TER Reviews 238 reads
posted
13 / 17
Yes- So much fun when is fresh!

I like to jump into kissing, hugs and some play right away...but then I politely ask ..."If you want to freshen up...", because then we can both play freely ;)

FreedaNipple 13 Reviews 204 reads
posted
14 / 17
Re: Yes- So much fun when is fresh!

Yes I like to come out of the shower knowing I'm fresh and clean and my balls smell nice... lol :

AngieB See my TER Reviews 266 reads
posted
15 / 17
Re: Yes- So much fun when is fresh!

Freshy Balls hah!

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Freya Fantasia See my TER Reviews 286 reads
posted
16 / 17
Yes, please let's kiss deeply and thoroughly at the door...

Then I want you to jump in the shower.

Once I tasted the difference, I wanted freshly washed all the time. And too many people have lied about how recently they've showered.

Please just a do a quick wash of this area then come to me wrapped in a towel.  It doesn't take much longer than washing your hands, or it shouldn't.

And I can tell when some of you don't use soap or just turn on the water and fake it completely. Why would you do that? It embarrasses me to have to ask somebody to go get back in the shower.  I might not be as enthusiastic about my fellatio if youre not nice and clean.

 
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Fancy8888 See my TER Reviews 283 reads
posted
17 / 17
Shower fun.

Posted By: happy.merchant
While I'm not a newbie this question has been on my mind for a while so I figured I'd ask for opinions here since the answer may help new folks:  
   
 I have made arrangements with providers who are clear that they want hobbyists to shower upon arrival.  And I think it's only right that I be clean with great breath when the fun starts.  But more often than not, when I walk in the door (always clean and with great breath) the provider is all over me and we just start kissing and getting naked and it seems as if she has absolutely no interest in me breaking away for a shower -- so while I have settled down into a nice relationship and probably won't be doing any hobbying for the foreseeable future, I am wondering, at least in retrospect, what the right thing to do is in a situation like this - do you go with the flow if she is totally into you, not pointing toward the shower and telling you to 'go' lol, esp if you know you're clean? or do you break the mood and tell her to stay right there as I'm gonna shower?  
   
 

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