Newbie - FAQ

Set up your on standard of scoring and be consistent
VenusLingam 2 Reviews 2479 reads
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1 / 9

I've only been an active hobbiest for a couple of months now. I have seen excatly 10 providers.

One was the best i've ever had and one was the worst. I have only two reviews and they are about these two ladies.

Now the other eight were in between at best. (tweeners)In Reading the reveiws of these tweeners I made my choices carefully based on reviews and numbers.

I havent wrote reviews on these other providers because my numbers would be like 7-7 for all of them which is not in line with the numbers that my tweeners are used to. They seem to get 9's and 10's. I can only base my scores on the time i had and looks are subjective at best. Don't get me wrong they all did the things their reviews said they did but without any passion.

Should I write these providers reviews? Will people think im nuts? OR did I just get plain lucky with the one lady who blew me away with style and passion?

Have fun and play safe. I'm looking forward to everybodys imput.

Bostonguy57 48 Reviews 1339 reads
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2 / 9

Well, first of all, imput is not a word. If you want my INPUT, I say why not write the reviews and score them as you see fit?  Who cares what other reviewers think of you?  If you keep hobbying there are going to be lots of good, bad and mediocre experiences.

Yella 1301 reads
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3 / 9

I say write it. You can only help everyone out by letting us know what you experienced. Without the bad and so so experiences, all the providers would be 9s and 10s, which is far from the true. So they had a bad day, oh well. If they read your review, maybe that will keep them from having bad days with others

AzureHorizon 3 Reviews 955 reads
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5 / 9

I have found myself in a similar situation where I saw a provider that had mostly great reviews, but my time with her was absolutely horrible. Be sure the providers don't know your TER handle so they won't know who to retaliate against (just in case they lose their dignity over a mediocre review), and write honest reviews. I certainly will, though I'm going to wait another week to do it.

RedCloak 6 Reviews 1014 reads
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6 / 9

> Will people think im nuts?

No, people will think of you as an excellent reviewer and your reviews will carry weight.  

After the hobby is fully legalized, you'll get your own review show on MTV. (j/k)

However, you will put yourself at risk (maybe) of scorn/retaliation from the ladies (see past few pages of Newbie board).

humblereply 1007 reads
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7 / 9

There used to discussion around a "point" system to have all review stike to a basic level of consistency.  I think Admin has something they follow, but I do not know what it is.


Scoring looks is purly your choice, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.  However, think about your answers,  if she looks like her pictures and her pictures are current, remember YOU picked her out and YOU paid her, so a low score reflects equally bad on your judgement.  Granted not all ladies are a 10 every time, but it would have to be a major bait and switch to have anything below a 7.  In my humble opinion.

Performance is tricker.  For instance, you may break a mythical review into the following categories as a way to balance your scores:
1)  Blow Job Characteristics
2)  DATY/Breast stimulation
3)  Kissing
4)  Single vs MSOG
5)  Positon friendliness/variablity
6)  Environment, Cleanliness, Odors,

Probably the most important variable of all you need to address is the overll attitude displayed in the session.  Did the provider go out of her way to create/deliver your fantasy and appeared to have enjoyed your company or was she mechanical, bored, and more interested in her phone ringing and next appointment texting.

You may award "bonus" recognition for use of toys, exotic journeys, massage, and experiementation.

You may decide to provide "negative" scoring for lateness, upselling, absence of necessary supplies, unexpected partners showing up in the incall or at your door.

However, in my humble opinion, the two most important things you need to do on your reviews:

Be absolutely consistent,  if you deviate from your "standard" know why.  I guarrantee, it will usually be the attitude thing.

Remember, this is still a people business.  You will at times meet a provider that does all the right thing, but the two of you just do not click.  There is no chemistry, the looks are wrong for your fantasy of the moment, or one of you has a bad day.  This is NOT grounds for a low scoring review.  Be fair, especially if the lady still tried to make the fantasy happen.  Not saying you give her a 10, but apply your "standard".  It is okay to say in comments you did not click and most likely will not repeat, but a low score is just low brow behaviour.

Good luck with the hobby.

steelhead1234 14 Reviews 967 reads
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8 / 9

The basis of this or any review system is honest reviews about the experience you had. I find it is more difficult to write a review of a mediocre experience than a great one.
What you don't want to do is come off a bashing the provider.

Goldenlight 20 Reviews 975 reads
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9 / 9

I usually wait about 30 days before I write a review,  So its truly anonymous.  Its I have a great time, I see her again before writing the review , just for consistancy.

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