Good you found TER useful in your adventure. The newbie feeling, here's my perspective: you enjoy sex, and found providers as an easy way to satisfy your needs-- its adventurous. Convenience is a big factor why many hobbyist enjoy this hobby. The "Newbie stage" is a feeling that most men get because they realize that they can have sex in a convenient way, and with many different providers without dealing with all the necessary drama of a SO. That's a big plus with many men.
Now, as the times continue, the more providers you see will eventually add up financially--that's a given. Recommend you start tracking your hobby spending monthly and yearly, and you'll be surprise at how much you spend. Being with a provider-- feeling is great. Its almost like cocaine, once your hooked, your hooked and wanting more of it.
As far as your financial goes, if you can afford it, then great, indulge yourself, but don't get carried away as faring as it impacting your personal life. As with me, I am the typical Joe, that works 9-5. In the beginning of my hobbying adventure, I was also like you, seeing many different providers b/c of the reasons mentioned. After a while, I was shocked at how much I've spent in 1 month, then tracked it annually, and the figures blew me away. Let's just say I could've bought a new car.
One reason why I slowed down is to maintain myself financially, and not have to eat peanut butter and jellly sandwiches for diner. Another reason why I slow down was to find better services. At first, it was just a bang bang thank you mam. Later however, I wait, looking for a good provider.
To answer your frequency question: at first, in the "newbie stage", I must have banged around 8 chics per week for about two months. After the third month, it was about 5 chics per week. Now, its more like 12-15 chics in a month--it can vary, for example, 1 week I might see 4 or 5, and the next week, just 1.
Hope my insight was helpful. Oh, let me answer my subject line. When I took a vacation last year, I had a bonus for $7,500 for paid vacation. I decided to stay home for the entire month and see as many providers I can. I've spent that within 3 weeks!!!! It wasn't a good experience. I think not overindulging make the experience better--seriously. Anyways, good luck and have fun.
Posted By: CorvetteJack
I was a newbie about 2 months ago (and thanks for the tips on this board) I've seen 10 different providers (some of them repeats) in the last 2 months and have 4 appointments confirmed over the next 2 weeks (2 repeats and 2 new providers).
I'm beginning to wonder what is the typcial hobbyist frequency after the "newbie" stage wears off?
During this time, I've met with 3 different providers in 1 week, and I've met with 2 different providers in 1 day (thanks to the little blue pill). I've just started this at my life stage (50+), and figure I better use it while I still can.
I travel out of state in my job which provides freedom for this, and at present I have the funds (both of which I know is an advantage that I have over many other hobbyists).
Do most newbies go thru this stage of seeing (or wanting to see) as many providers as they can?
How long before the newbie stage wears off?
What frequency do most hobbyists enjoy after the newbie stage wears off?
How often do you like to see repeat providers?
Thanks for the information.
