It seems like every girl with a good or decent review requires screening. but of course who would want a girl that had bad reviews.  How is it possible to get a reference if every girl requires a reference in the first place. I have been unsucessful in making an appointment with numerous girls so far.

She'll find a way to screen you, yes, but she'll also find a way to see you, which is the point.

You need to decide what information you are willing to give out and what you are not.  Everyone has different levels of comfort.

Then you need to find a lady whose needs for her safety match your need for safety, or are at least compatable.  Read around here and you will find a lot of references to P411, Date-Check, etc.  For many men this is a good option.  I have found them both very valuable.

Getting the first foot in the door is indeed difficult.

I just had my first experience and here's my experience. Thru the reviews I found a wonderful girl who seemed cool to see me. I planned way ahead in order to give her lots of time to check things out. I offered a lot of info and I got the go from her a week later. Sounds easy. However, this beautiful lady started having second thoughts as my big day drew near. I didn't know this at the time, but she almost backed out. Boy, would I have missed out on something special. She arrived very nervous that I was LE and it took a little while for her to relax. I though P411 or Date-Check wasn't necessary since I wasn't sure how much hobbying I'm going to be doing. However, after seeing the stress this sweet girl went thru, I felt really bad and have since signed up with P411. I recommend you sign up as well.

Funny, I was thinking the same thing. I thought about dancing around a parking lot naked while playing with myself to prove I'm not LE but figured that may turn off the provider too! Its a canundrum for sure.

Such as RS2K,Date-Check,or P411 depending on what city you are located in some of these sites are used more in certain areas.Once there you can search for newbie friendly providers also if you do sign up for membership a lady might request additional info from you.There are many different ways of screening there are some ladies that ask for references plus additional info,some are okay with just references,some might not ask for anything it just depends on who you are seeing and her requirements.I am newbie friendly while I do ask for references obviously if he is new he will not have any but there is other info that can be given in lieu of this.
Good luck to you!Once you get your foot in the door it should become a lot easier for you.

I’m a newbie and have not seen a provider yet, therefore, no references.  It appears that P411 might be the way to go BUT I have a question: is it a matter of “more info” about yourself the better?  For example, if I were to give P411 or a provider a link to a recent magazine article about myself or have her Google me and find other articles  that would support the fact that I am who I say I am, would that provide a higher comfort level? Or would that be tmi and not too smart?  Would appreciate feedback, Thanks