Regarding longer dates/ovnights or simply more expensive sessions, what's the protocol? I've seen some providers mention money orders, is that a safe bet? Or am I going to be laughed out of the bedroom at the very mention of it?
If/When you've had an overnight date, have you really handed the lady $2-3,000 cash? Even splitting that up into a deposit ahead of time and the rest at the time of the date, that's still more than you're going to want to slip into an envelope or gift bag.
Perhaps this is moot because, if you've met the lady previously you'll feel more comfortable talking about price or payment methods over the phone or via email.
I've also seen a couple sites/ads mention the availability of pay-by-credit-card. Personally, I have my reservations about that. I'm guessing I'm not the only one?
longer session unless you've already met and know each other a little bit.
But what is the issue with handing over whatever the donation is? After, $3,000 is only 30 $100 bills - trust me on this, it will fit into the envelope just fine.
BTW, if you ever happen to run across a situation where, even using $100's you can't fit it all into one envelope, I think I can say with fairly good certainty that MOST ladies are not going to get too awfully offended when you hand them two envelopes and apologize profusely because you just couldn't fit it all into one envelope.
I do not see there being an issue of putting that kind of money in an envelope. I have never heard of money orders but hey I learned something new today I would go with the cash. I think you might be over thinking this a bit just put the provider's donation in an envelope regardless if it is for a multi-hour or overnight appointment. Good luck to you!
You may not click with the provider. An alternative is to visit two providers for two hours each. You know your needs, I am just suggesting.
Beware of sending a large deposit to a provider or agency that you don't have a long, positive history with. You may never see the deposit again and end up with your strong hand as company for the night.
so, I'm doing my regular monthly Walmart trip....well, while I'm on the stationary/office supplies isle, I spot this hottie buying a box of envelopes....I was like "hot damn, he's a Hobbyist" sure wish I'd find out the fun way...hehe Anywho, two envelope would work....especially if you were that hottie in Walmart the other day...oh yeah
The NY Diamond District is well known for accepting only cash. You are the one that is uncomfortable handling that much cash. For the Lady, it is another day at work. Retail businesses routinely take multiples of your uncomfort level in cash to the bank each day. 30 Benji's easily fit in an envelope. It might be a little full, but the lady's enjoy being filled up.
The only advice I can offer is: • 100 dollars bills are prefereable since they are less bulky. • do not use a bank envelope, a greeting card sized envelope is more discreet. ; ) • double check the woman's website to see if she has mentioned a specific way she prefers you handle the money. For example, on my site I specify an UNSEALED envelope, no bank envelopes, and slipping into a book is preferable. Some ladies specifiy that the envelope have something written on it, that you place it in a certain location, that you give it to them within a certain time frame... etc etc.
So, definitely check to see how she prefers payment.
I don't like envelopes. There is no way to know for sure you have been paid unless you look in it. And there is no way to do that discreetly right in front of the guy. And if you take it out of his sight and you find you are shorted, he could just as easily accuse you of stealing some of it. Envelopes are a breeding ground for distrust and a lack of trust is not the best way to start off a session in my opinion. So, you feel pressured to just let it sit there and not look in it so he feels like you trust him!
The only time I was ever shorted is when there was an envelope (and I've heard the same from other girls as well)!
With proper screening, using an envelope should be completely unnecessary. It doesn't protect anyone and there should be no reason to even need to be discreet behind closed doors.
But tradition abounds... so just respect her wishes and make sure she feels comfortable and happy.
I found myself cheated as well, & prefer cash just left discreetly out in the open, Please, & I'm serios Please do not ever hand me the.........if I've had the slightest reservation about you but still alowing you the opportunity to share my time with you & you hand something to me it just may not be the "hit the ball out of the park, mind rocking massage you expected",lol. A few weeks ago just out of the blue each client was using the white envelope, I wandered what was going on....Then not to my surprise I got on a few of these sites & started reading just to find out a certain provider (in my area) was giving out the advice to all the hobbyists to use this as if it was a rule for all providers...which I have found this same provider often speaks out like she is the know it all & her standards should be adopted by all providers if they are legit & somehow these guys fall for it, if the provider isn't doing exactly as she is then she may not be legit & they should come see her.... Listening to several different people & going with what makes the most sense to you is the way to go & hopefully it all works out in the end.... O, & no money orders, money orders are really hard to cash (even at your own bank where u do all your banking) due to numerous fraudulent ones out there in transit......and they are traceable.....and I don't think many providers want to be going to a bank, I think cash works best & that all of us would appreciate that as the only way to go....envelope or no envelope.
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