Guys/Gals, I've lurked around here a bunch.  Asked tons of stupid questions and bored people to tears about an upcoming trip I am going to take where I was going to join the "hobby".  Well, as I posted earlier, I lost my "cherry" to a local gal. After I started breathing, it was off the hook.  I waited a whole week before calling the same gal back.

My problem is I am so inexperienced in the bedroom that I felt like I was rushing things.  My first trip was for an hour.  I looked at my watch as I entered but didn't look at it until I was leaving 35 minutes later.  I had no idea what time it was.  My last trip was a little better particularly since I only bought 1/2 hour.  

How does one slow down?  Also, with my inexperience, do I ask for a road map?  Just kiddin' but I hope you get the point.  How do I best enjoy time with these amazingly beautiful and talented women?  I have two of San Diego's best on my calendar and I want it to be memorable.

Practice...
Practice...
Practice...

That's how you get to Carnegie Hall!!!!

Slow down and relax, and stop look at the clock.  Your gal will lead, if you let her, and she will give you subtle hints as time in running up, like, "Would you like to take a shower?".  You might also get hints of extending your session to a second hour.

My advice... Listen... than take a breath or two and think... before you answer.  Often, the first thing that pops into your head is not the response you want to give....

Go on there and enter the words "premature" or "come too soon" into the search engine.  You'll find hours of reading.

My personal tip:  Lots of foreplay:  cuddling, massage, making out, etc.

Rev up slowly, in other words.

I've done them on occasssion, but half hours are just way to short for a GFE experience. Take a deep breath, enjoy the foreplay, including spending sometime to get to know the lady. Eventually you'll get the hang of things. Good luck

There was some logic to my madness in the half hour date.  During my 1st hour, I was nervous as heck.  I didn't have a lot of time but I figured the second date was simply to make me more comfortable with a "stranger".  Having seen the same gal twice, I am planning to see a different one soon.

I know the goal is our own pleasure of course...  the way to slow down is to book an hour.  Tell her you are pretty new & ask her to guide you in pleasing your partner as well...  a skill that is rewarding both in & out of the hobby.  The slower you go...  building intensity by delaying your own peak (by giving to a partner)...  for me at least, intensifies my pop.  
You would benifit from reading the "Newbie Manual" at the top of this page.  While it does not tell "how" the presence of an abbreviation indicates at least some are interested in a given activity.  

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