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Risks All Around
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I've done incall occasionally and there are risks with all kinds of arrangements.  If a lady sets up shop in a hotel, there are observables of mostly guys knocking on the door, being let in, and leaving after an hour or so.  Depending on the age of the hotel, amorous sounds can be heard in adjoining rooms.  Afternoon appointments are risky because nobody hardly ever stays in their hotel room during the day.  Also, there are maids and other employees running around all the time.  They have seen it all before, I'm sure!

Guys visiting hotels for incall need to look like they belong in the hotel.  Call her from the parking lot or somewhere other than the lobby, especially if it's a small hotel lobby.  Often, I will carry an empty briefcase so it looks like I'm coming back from a meeting.  I return the greetings of the desk clerks if they say "hello."  I confidently walk towards the elevators.  If someone else is in the elevator going to the same floor (We've ALL had this happen at least once!), I will either push a higher floor or get off with him or her on the intended floor.  If they start walking down the same hallway in the same direction, I will either keep walking beyond them until they stop at their room and enter.  If there's no way out, I will stop, walk back to the elevator, and mutter something like, "Darn...wrong floor!"  Finally, after the session, I always leave via an exit that is different than the lobby.

Apartments are OK if the ladies and guys do the same things to reduce observables.  I used to visit an agency who set up shop in a townhouse in the DC area.  They were eventually busted because the demographics of the ladies, guys, and agency owner didn't fit into the neighborhood.  Guys by themselves would come & go an hour at a time.  I think the agency owner lived there as well, and, he probably didn't have any sort of plausible cover story for the neighbors.

I recall a famous incall house in LA years ago.  I once asked the owner how they explained their lifestyle to the neighbors.  She said they told them that they were running an adult website out of their house.  All of the guys and ladies who came & went were actors.  A couple of the ladies had done some porn, so the owner was able to come up with names of real adult websites where some of the ladies appeared.  They stayed in business for years without any problems.

angelsix1924 reads

... unless they're renting a hotel room?  I'm a total noob, and keep reading about providers who use their homes for business.  It seems obvious that this isn't possible, as there would be neighbors who would notice a constant stream of men visiting for 30 or 60 minutes.  And, the world being the way it is, surely some of them would find this offensive and take unpleasant action.  Or, some of them would decide "Great.  I can break the windows of these guys's cars and steal their GPS and whatever, since they can't afford to get involved with the police."

I know, obviously my question is based entirely on speculation, and I guess I don't really need an answer, but am curious.

How bout one of those large apartment complexes that every major city has. You know where no one knows there nieghbor. People are moving in and out all the time.  Sign a lease for 6 months then move. Or how a remote home, where there are no neighbors. I've been to both.  And yes, some providers actually use their private home. Not something that I'm comfortable going to, but I've been to plenty over the years.  Some providers are low volume, maybe see a few guys a week. Don't assume that a provider sees 8 to 10 guys a day, 5 or 6 days a week. However, you are correct nosey neighbors have gotten more than one provider busted.  BTW, I've  never had my car broken into while visiting an escort at her home.

a lot are apartment buildings that are very anonymous.  The best, most experienced providers don't live in their incal apts. and use them only for business.  It works fine, from what I can tell.

angelsix1441 reads

All of that makes sense.  Thanks!

Occasionally Soccer Mom's will get busted...  entertaining while kids are at school.  It's generally not a good idea to work from the place you sleep.

Last thing you need is her husband coming home early.

I've done incall occasionally and there are risks with all kinds of arrangements.  If a lady sets up shop in a hotel, there are observables of mostly guys knocking on the door, being let in, and leaving after an hour or so.  Depending on the age of the hotel, amorous sounds can be heard in adjoining rooms.  Afternoon appointments are risky because nobody hardly ever stays in their hotel room during the day.  Also, there are maids and other employees running around all the time.  They have seen it all before, I'm sure!

Guys visiting hotels for incall need to look like they belong in the hotel.  Call her from the parking lot or somewhere other than the lobby, especially if it's a small hotel lobby.  Often, I will carry an empty briefcase so it looks like I'm coming back from a meeting.  I return the greetings of the desk clerks if they say "hello."  I confidently walk towards the elevators.  If someone else is in the elevator going to the same floor (We've ALL had this happen at least once!), I will either push a higher floor or get off with him or her on the intended floor.  If they start walking down the same hallway in the same direction, I will either keep walking beyond them until they stop at their room and enter.  If there's no way out, I will stop, walk back to the elevator, and mutter something like, "Darn...wrong floor!"  Finally, after the session, I always leave via an exit that is different than the lobby.

Apartments are OK if the ladies and guys do the same things to reduce observables.  I used to visit an agency who set up shop in a townhouse in the DC area.  They were eventually busted because the demographics of the ladies, guys, and agency owner didn't fit into the neighborhood.  Guys by themselves would come & go an hour at a time.  I think the agency owner lived there as well, and, he probably didn't have any sort of plausible cover story for the neighbors.

I recall a famous incall house in LA years ago.  I once asked the owner how they explained their lifestyle to the neighbors.  She said they told them that they were running an adult website out of their house.  All of the guys and ladies who came & went were actors.  A couple of the ladies had done some porn, so the owner was able to come up with names of real adult websites where some of the ladies appeared.  They stayed in business for years without any problems.

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