I have been a strip/lapdance club patron for almost ten years.  As some of you may know there is a law going through the legislature here in L.A. that will outlaw contact between dancers and patrons, which would effectively end lapdancing.  The site I use for all my club info has a link to this site so I started researching.  As I was looking I recognized a couple of the girls reviewed as girls who had danced for me in the past.  With this info I went back to my favorite club and asked one of the girls, who has allowed me DATY and hiding my digits in her p*ssy in the club, and is a former porn starlet, if she offered incall private sessions (ie indie provider).  She does.  $120 per half hour.  We exchanged a few emails and our first session is a week from today.  She's asked me to call her twice, once the day before, and once the day of our session.  The thing is, besides general nevousness, is that this isn't even my favorite girl at the club, just the one I felt most likely to be a provider.  I feel like I'm cheating on my fave, who I've known several years and consider my best friend.  I'm nervous as hell. Any words of advice/encouragement would be appreciated.  Thanks in advance.

to feel nervous faced with the first plunge. my advice is to go through with it and just DON'T THINK, which shouldn't be hard if you let the "little guy" do all the thinking for you!  although there are many different interpretations, i prefer to think that it's not "cheating" if you treat it as casually as having just a snack (say a cold leftover pizza!)

IMHO, the more you think/plan and deceive yourself (and others) the more premeditated it becomes and thus more closer to the true definition of "cheating" on a loved one or SO

the only thing i would caution you against is doing your first plunge with a provider who is NOT your favorite girl (the one you lust after the most). this risks your first experience being (needlessly) a sour one

good luck ... and remember, don't think!

My friend I will tell you that even though this is a GREAT service ie: TER and it was about time we MEN who have been played so carefully by the slice of sweetness that is dangled in front of us by the other side (women) .... I would just like to say that the FANTACY exisits in your mind !!! and the only fantacy that exists in hers is $$$ and how much ...on that note please do not let me deprive you of your fantacy and I wish you well and hope some day soon that you will be able to experince your fantasy with your FAV !!!!
JD........