I still consider myself a newbie. Been doing this for just a few months now, always with local (MN) ladies. I gave myself a birthday gift for tomorrow and set up an appointment with a touring lady. Reviews and pics are all 9's and 10's. I'm excited as heck, but nervous as well. The local ladies I've seen haven't been real GFE's, not into kissing, etc. Anybody have a favorite mantra I can use to calm the nerves? Just wanted to vent a bit.
My advise is to start drinking heavily!! LOL (remember Animal House after they wrecked the lincoln? Anyway I digress. I get that way evry time myself, maybe because of guilt.(married 32 years does that to you) I guess if the appointment is in the morning or midday maybe you can get in a good workout, run a few miles, etc. Of course you can do the same any time of the day too. Still... A couple good stiff ones wouldn't hurt either.
call her up and ask if you could bring a bottle of wine or something. this would bring both of you into a relaxed state before well you know, It would be a nice touch also to bring some flowers or a diamond necklace or well, ok thats a little extreme, but don't forget it's more about her taking care of you, relax!! she'll know what to do.
My first GFE, which was also my first review, was about a year ago, who is known for spending some time on the couch, kissing caressing and cuddling, followed by I undress you and you undress me (my advise read the reviews, don't just look at the numbers!).
If you have a particular type of visit in mind, I don't think it is out of line to discreetly e-mail the lady the day before to say you know, it would really be great to arrive to find a sexily, but fully clothed (underwear optional, of course) woman wanting me to take her in my arms for some time of passion, before moving on to other things. If this lady is truly what you describe, she will know what you want, remember her livelihood depends on her being able to please men.
Let her know what you want, relax, and follow her lead.
Thanks to all for the great advice AND encouragement. A drink or two is definitelyon the list. I'm also going to the health club to work off just the right amount of steam and sit in the hot tub for a few relaxing minutes. Thanks again!
I worry a little bit, but am still single and I think why should I worry when this girl is (or is nearly)half my age. Keep that in mind. These girls don't know what you look like and sometime go to guys hotels, and YOU are nervous? lol, that's what I try to remind myself of when I feel a little nervous.
How did it go? My very first one went bad, I lost my erection before getting anything. Viagra fixed that. $300 plus $200 for the room and no nut. The girl was so awesome and sweet it didn't matter.
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