My name is Julie Wild.  I live near Atlanta.  I am really new to all of this.  I have been unemployed since the spring and need to do something.  I have always had a fantasy of being a "provider".  

I am 40 and it seems like dancing is for the younger girls.  I am really excited about this new business venture, but I have a question for your guys?

I am going to be independent and offer a different and unique concept.  I am sitting here in front of my computer building my own site.  

I have a question?  When you guys are looking for a lady, would you rather she is "needy and broke" or would you rather she is " a successful business women" and runs this as a business or would you rather she be a housewife and does this for fun while the husband is at work?

By the way, I am all three.  I am a very successful business women who happens to be between careers, but I am also a married mom who is planning on doing this while the husband and kids are busy.

Any input would be appreciated.  My picture is on my site but I have not added much text until I get some input from you guys.

Also, if any of your guys want to personally e mail me to give me some tips or pointers, I would appreciate it, I am not only new to this, but I hit forty and want to prove to myself that I can still be really sexy.

Thank You,

Julie

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All of the above is probably the best way to answer your question. I've never picked a provider based on whether she's a mom or a businesswoman, though someone who is needy and desperate might scare me off for fear she's doing this for the wrong reasons. I think I speak for most if not all men in that we'd prefer to be with someone who wants to be there -- not someone who is forced into doing something against her will by financial necessity.
   What really matters, of course, is not what a woman is in her private life but who she is -- what attitutude and approach she brings -- to the session. The fact that you've fantasized about this for awhile is a good start, and I'm sure the other ladies would tell you how important it is to treat it like a business because it is. Beyond that, every guy is different and it's hard to generalize.
   Don't worry about the age at all! There are plenty of guys (me certainly) who much prefer the not-so-young providers and if you read the boards, you'll see many of the most successful ladies are well over 40.  
    Good luck -- and the web site is off to a good start. I wish I lived close to Atlanta! If you have any specific questions or want feedback when you start to build the text part of the site, feel free to e-mail here or at [email protected].

Thanks for the quick reply.  I am really into this for the thrill.  I have lived out every fantasy I have ever had, except this one.  I am only going to offer my services about two days a week.   I am going to offer in call to start.  I just want some way to let the guys know that I am truly the "mom next door" and very clean and nice.  I have no tattoos or piercing, totally natural.

If anyone has any "slogans or tag lines" that are memorable or fit my situation, please feel free to e mail me.

Thanks,

Julie

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I think if you read through some of the boards it does become apparent that all the above and more would be indeed true.

Do what you want Julie and dont ever appear to be desperate for money in between jobs. It only leads to less savory characters who will talk the shit off the bull.
First and formost you must always be a professional never present yourself as less. When you do, no one will have any other view and it is a difficult rep to work out of.
Make your Fantasy a reality. With discretion education and safe practices you could indeed make yourself a comfortable cushion during your time between .

You cant please everyone. Men all over the world seek something different in each and every woman they desire to be with and you cant be all those things. Find a niche and enjoy it.
xo/mo

Here are a few thoughts I hope will help a little.

But first, some context:  I am older, and probably fall into a minority of men in this business (as a customer).  By that I mean my comments in the TER discussion boards agree with about one third of the other posters.  Two thirds may see the world differently.

Personally, when I am deciding whether to see you I do not care if you are "needy and broke" or " a successful business women" or “a housewife and does this for fun”.  I look for the following things, not in order, but the first one is the most important to me (after you are "established" you can add TER reviews, but I'm writing this for a new start):

--Does your personality come across as someone fun to be with?  Do you have a sense of humor?  Do I feel I can just enjoy being with you?
--What city are you in?  Will I be in/near there?
--What is your availability?  Does it meet when I can see you?
--What are your rates for 2 hours?  That is my preferred session length.
--Your photos:  are you physically attractive (that has a very wide acceptable range for me, and is subjective to every man)

Is this the same list every man looks for?  No.  But I expect most guys really won’t see you or not based upon those things you are worried about.  Just put a few things in there that give an idea of who you are.  By no means tell all about yourself, for safety reasons as well as to leave some things for discovery.  But what you do put in there, make it the real you, both the description of you the person as well as the pictures.  There are guys who like almost anything, and you want your web site to attract the people who are most likely to actually like being with you when they meet you.  Truth in advertizing.  The worst comments generally accrue to a lady who misrepresents herself.

Look at a lot of Ladies’ sites, see the different ways they convey who they are, and then go from there.  Morgan, Sadona, and Sabrina Black are three I would suggest you start with.  All are very classy (in different ways) and you might get some ideas.

Good luck.

I tend to stay away from the "needy & broke" category.  Reads too much like desperation.


Mysterious women are very welcome & wanted to me.

BTW, I like your web page!! Please keep it simple and let us know when you expand it. Travelling gents use slow dial up connections in the hotels still, so keep that in mind while designing your site.
Where are you located?

Good Luck.

Thanks for the tip, I forget that sometimes people still use dial up.  

I live near Atlanta and plan on building my site and building up some contacts from now till the end of the year, then I plan to start on January 2, as my New Years resolution.

Love,

Julie

PS.... Please check back later this week, I am going to add some new stuff tonight.

Dear Julie,

I was greatly saddened by your post.  If I knew that you were married and had kids, I wouldn't even contact you after reading your ad.  I would not want to be part of something that would likely destroy your family.  Your kids don't deserve to learn that their Mom made a decision like this.  Your husband doesn't deserve this either - and didn't you make sacred vows to each other?  As far as proving to yourself that you can still be sexy, I have these observations to offer: (a) I have no doubt that you can be as sexy as you want to be; (b) I have no doubt that your husband would be thrilled if you decided to become a tigress in the bedroom with him; and (c) becoming an escort will NOT prove that you are sexy.  It will just prove that if you are willing to have sex with a man you don't know, you will find men who will be more than willing to take you up on that.  Did you ever consider that a lot of those men will be guys you really DON'T want to be with?  Have you thought about what would happen if one of them roughed you up?  How would you explain a black eye when your kids get home from school?  Leave this game to the single folks and get it out of your head.  Go kiss your husband as long and hard as you can, and don't ever think of this again.  You're lucky to have a family - lots of us really envy that.  - Jack

Julie, my two cents...

When I am looking for a profiver, other than idle curiosity, I do not care at all about her private life. Indeed, the "woman in need" usually makes me think there is a hustle involved.

I need to know that she will not bring a "driver" (who is likely to rob me.

I need to know that she can provide what I don't routinely have (a sexy, vixen type who can be a slut for me). Obviously, you need to check with your client to determine what they seek.

I need to know that she is healthy and clean.

Finally, I need to know if she is shaved or natural - I don't like last minute surprises.

Good luck... oh - also, indicate any hard limits or things you WILL NOT do.

Don

I expect it’s not what you intended, but your post implies it would be alright for a single woman to be roughed up, etc.

Whether she is married or not has absolutely NO bearing on the fact that every woman should be able to conduct her business—be it escorting or otherwise—in safety.

Again, I doubt that is what you meant, but it is the way it comes across.

Old Traveler, you're right - I didn't mean to imply THAT!  It's never acceptable for anyone to get roughed up, and any jerk who physically abuses any woman deserves to do time in prison.  What I was focusing on when I wrote that post was what her children might see.  I meant that it would be terrible for any woman to get roughed up - but it would be even worse if she had to explain how it happened to her little ones.  Sorry about that, I didn't mean to send the wrong message to anyone. - Jack

Neat web site, I did find after a little searching that you have a rate of $$$$$$ 1/2 for a one hour coaching session. I don't doubt your many talents, but I find it hard to believe that many men would be willing to be the first to use your coaching at that rate. Just my .02, the artwork is very intriguing. John

Julie...you have received pretty good feedback up to this point so I only have a small detail to add which is that men are visual creatures.  While the art work is a nice touch, I like to be able to easily find a few photos.  I navigated your site for a few minutes and could not find them.  When I am searching for a provider, I find one who may be good, has good reviews (once established) but I always have a look at the photos.  Posting only artwork may lead to the suspicion that they are embellished versions of you and that you have something to hide.  I also agree that the $$$$ are a bit high.

I for one like a picture that is real..and want GS,relaxed,no bS,passion... I like the older providers to the young ones... I I am going to be on Atlanta the last week in January, as I have company business there. I will re-visit your site and see if we can set up an appointmet. [email protected]