what is the proper way to draw out information from a provider about her services. i have been hesitant in the past to get to specific but i am tired of being dooped. shall i refer to what "languages does she speek". i. e. do you speak greek asian french w/o translator etc.?  or should i use acronyms. bbbjtcim , dato, daty? any insite would be greatly appreciated.

Let her know on the phone that you have some questions you would like answered before your date and want to know if she prefers to answer them on the phone or via e-mail. Most providers ask you questions ie. name & work number for screening purposes, so most do not mind returning the favor. But, some are adament in not going over details on the phone, so ask if it is ok to go over a few questions first before blurting any detailed questions out. Be polite & considerate, and you will be ok.

thanx Jim. (eom)

Expecting the lady to get graphic on the phone when she hasn't yet met you is chancy for her.
If her reviews are numerous & good and her profile covers what you like then the rest is YMMV(Your Milage May Vary)