Am an older guy and had a prostate procedure a number of years ago. Have an erectile problem that is corrected by Levitra as long as I confine my sexuality to masterbation at my home. When seeing a provider, I am usually a dud: performance anxiety my urologist sez. Any kind, wise words of advice that will help me be "sucessful"

I am also older (61) and have had my prostate out.   I can get erect with Viagra, but I cannot always perform, no matter who the provider is.   But generally the good ones can get me going well enough to come inside, which is what I prefer.   I say that you should lie back and enjoy the fantasy of a young, beautiful woman making love to you.  The fantasy generally works for me.

Thanks for the advice.

Try having a glass of wine or an adult beveage to relax just don't over due it.

I am not there yet but it reminds me of what an Old dude told me once....your Dick dies before you do!