Ok...how do most ladies like to be paid?  I'll admit I am not an experienced pro, but when I have given 350 all in 20s and tens, sometimes I have detected a bit of a snigger.  Do the service providers prefer low denom bills so they can use them anywhere, or high denomination bills so they don't have to lug suitcases full of bills on the plane home

Just something I always wondered about, especially when they have incall days and see quite a few gentlemen.

I know most prefer to be paid right away...but some like envelopes and no discussion, some like to sit and count lol.  Would love some feedback from the escort community on "payment ettiquette"

I don't think it much matters.  I have paid providers in all 20's and I have spotted them a couple of "C" notes.   I suppose it is better to give them 20's and 10's so that they don't have to change a 100 at the 7-11 for beer LOL.  I think the "sniggers' come from them remembering that they are doing this for money and it gives them a chuckle.  At the end of the day, you are paying them and that's all that matters.

You are being much too sensitive. Money is money. ATMs anywhere other than Vegas give out 20s. A $100 bill can be a bigger pain in the ass to cash than it is worth, sometimes.

I wouldn't suggest you try paying one of the Porn Stars or high rated ladies in twenties, the amount would be cumbersome. But for amounts under $500, I go with whatever I have. Sometimes it is large bills sometimes small.

Any lady that gives a hard time about small bills should have her name posted so we can pay her in CHANGE from now on

as long as the greenbacks add up to the fee agreed upon, I don't think it really matters to most.
I for one prefer the blank white envelope being set down with no further discussion; for legal reasons (never talk about $$$) and it makes for a more relaxed, friendly atmosphere, not just strictly business.
my question has always been: does it make any difference whether you pay before or after session? (for legal reasons or for receiving better service)
best regards, mr.man

I have always paid before from either habit or they asked and they almost always count it even though I do it visibly.

This is probobly being way too anal, but should the envelope be sealed, unsealed, or it doesn't matter either way?

I am wondering if some of them even considers taking quarters? They got to do the laundry sometime (if not everyday )

in response to bo747: " sealed or unsealed envelope?"

to my way of thinking, no real justification for it, I always seem to use an unsealed envelope with flap just tucked inside. I don't suppose it really matters, but this way she can quickly check and verify that the cash is really in there. I just prefer to lay down the donation/gift shortly after beginning so that no discussion about finances ever takes place.

...and yes we probably are being "too anal" about this, but it's these little details that sometimes make the difference between a good or bad experience for both parties involved

best regards, mr.man

Unsealed makes it easier for the lady to count it, if she wants to.

I think that out of courtesy and respect, you should always have your donation counted and sealed in an envelope. A card is a nice touch. It's kind of tacky to pull out a wad of $20 bills and toss them on the bedside table, for both parties. Also, if you don't have to "take care of business", it's a more enjoyable session..more relaxed, no worries about LE,no concerns about tipping/upcharging,all of that. I refuse to even comment or acknowledge donations during my sessions, and while I know girls who have gotten ripped off by dishonest clients, it's a very small percentage of people out there doing that sort of thing.

I don't think there's too much difference between a $100 bill, and 5 $20 bills, provided all are real! *laughs*

*Hugs*,
*~ Angelique

I once worked as a Real Estate agent (God help me)and I sold a house to a provider. She paid her 10% deposit in 10's an 20's which resulted in manny comments in the office.

Does the donation envelope have to be left out in the open? If I bring a gift, can it be in the small bag with the gift, and mentioned as such?

thanks