I have never had a bad response from a provider(as far as I know)regarding my weight. And I am more tha  alittle overweight.

Then you greatly reduce the chance that she'll react badly. I use a wheelchair. It doesn't effect my confidence but I like the lady to know up front in case she may have a problem with it. It's never happened to me but, if she did have a problem with the chair, we don't waste each other's time.

A friend who is a provider told me of a perspective client whose situation sounds similar to yours. In his first contact (email) with her, the gentleman described his size just in case she would have a problem with it. She didn't, by the way. As she said, "I don't care, as long as he is hygenic and respectful."

thirsty

I always take a small gift and a large red or yellow silk rose, in my hand when I walk in the door, along with a card in an envelope with a contribution to her college fund, with "College Fund" typed across it - not handwriting.
Such gestures help, and cannot hurt.
Those say "thoughtful guy."

They don't care.  They're there for the money, not the sex.  It doesn't matter what you look like.

I'm pretty scary looking and I've never had any problems.

Just thought I would update, the provider, didn't react badly...Actually she was more accomidating then any of my recent girlfirends...Definately had the best time I have had in a long time...Thanks for all the replies...