There are a few ladies who have allowed me to videotape and/or take photos of the session if I wanted to.One said I could the first time that I saw her but I wouldn't expect too many of those offers.I've never gone ahead with it though.Too much evidence! To answer your question,some will allow photos and/or videotaping for an extra fee and will make this known on their websites,very few will allow it on a first "date" though,but may be open to it down the road after you build some sort of a trusting relationship with that particular lady,but most ladies will refuse altogether.Too much potential to be blackmailed or "outed" as an escort.Best thing to do is to ask her;the worst thing she can do is say no.