that are affectionate towards a hobbyist.  Many hobbyists define GFE as ladies offered DFK, maybe BBBJ.

...it seems that most of the guys I know in this hobby agree with it more or less.  A GFE provider is one who provides, to an extent which you personally require, emotional and intellectual, as well as physical stimulation, of a type which one would normally equate with a non-provider who you were in some dating relationship (exclusive or otherwise).  In my circle of hobbyists, we sometimes refer to "the 3 pillars of GFE":  BBBJ, DFK, DATY.  Most of the guys, myself included, that I am friendly with in this hobby, consider those 3 as critical requirements for a GFE experience.  However, GFE is subjective, and the definition will vary amongst readers of this board.

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