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Agnar 29 Reviews 2477 reads
posted
1 / 15
All P411 members - with references

Maybe a dumb questions, but I am going to ask it anyway.  

For those providers that say they are willing to see "All P411 members-with references" do you actually list out your reference info in your appointment request, or do you just let your okays speak for themselves?

Businesses 22 Reviews 590 reads
posted
2 / 15
List your two most recent references with your appointment request

She may or may night contact your references, but it's nice to have all the information there to make her feel a little better (even if you have a lot of Okays).

Posted By: Agnar
Maybe a dumb questions, but I am going to ask it anyway.  
   
 For those providers that say they are willing to see "All P411 members-with references" do you actually list out your reference info in your appointment request, or do you just let your okays speak for themselves?

macdaddy1944 51 Reviews 522 reads
posted
3 / 15
the latter

i have been on P411 for 2 years now and have NEVER been asked for a reference..the OK'S speak for themselves..the ladies can read..just send in the request..if she wants to see you..she will check you out and let you know..

Posted By: Agnar
Maybe a dumb questions, but I am going to ask it anyway.  
   
 For those providers that say they are willing to see "All P411 members-with references" do you actually list out your reference info in your appointment request, or do you just let your okays speak for themselves?

HobbyCity 606 reads
posted
4 / 15
I try to give as little information as possible

The purpose of P411 verification and Okays is to eliminate the need for references and employment information.

If a P411 lady requires references in addition to my P411 ID, I will gladly provide references but not my P411 ID. She doesn't need it.

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 602 reads
posted
5 / 15
That makes zero sense.

What difference does it make if she is ONLY wanting info. that can't trace back to the real you? If a guy's refs on P411 suck, damn right I want others he might have, and vice versa. I want a TER handle too so I can see what an asshole he is as far as reviews go.

Bromios 7 Reviews 547 reads
posted
6 / 15
Re: That makes zero sense.

I think the question is whether the P411 okays speak for themselves, and in my experience they do.  What's the point of repeating information that the provider has access to already?

jaydalee See my TER Reviews 680 reads
posted
7 / 15
Most P411 guys...

Just send me their P411 info I can see their okays they do not send their references as well.
On my P411 profile I do have that marked all P411 members w/references.
There are some P411 gents who have are members but do not have okays in that case I would ask for references to be sent or if he only has a few okays and he is a new member of P411 I might ask for additional references.The only time I have asked for references to be sent to me from a P411 member that had okays is when the okays are no longer valid or too old.
In my opinion if a gent has enough current okays listed on his profile he does not need to send an appt request including those references.

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 476 reads
posted
8 / 15
Ohhhhh, ok I get that lol.

Yes, if a provider has a P411, she can easily contact anyone on that list. Problem is, you guys don't know what goes on when provider A contacts provider B to ask questions. Just because a guy has 10 okays, does not mean we are not supposed to still contact them, or at least the most recent ones. Even Gina suggests that we do additional screening, and many will.  

No clue why a provider would want the very SAME refs a guy has on P411, sent via email when she has them on the account.

-- Modified on 6/6/2013 12:01:47 AM

earthshined 512 reads
posted
9 / 15
Re: That makes zero sense.

me too.

I only use P411 providers. Usually, it's enough.only had 2,3 even check my profile. they accept without "checking" references.

i had one ask for more info, I declined and moved on.

earthshined 530 reads
posted
10 / 15
Re: Most P411 guys...

"The only time I have asked for references to be sent to me from a P411 member that had okays is when the okays are no longer valid or too old."

makes too much sense. this is why I delete all old okays. they are pretty useless for screening.

SirWilliam00 16 Reviews 499 reads
posted
11 / 15
Not totally worthless to keep OK's

Posted By: earthshined

 makes too much sense. this is why I delete all old okays. they are pretty useless for screening.
Some providers have listed as many as a minimum of 4-6 OK's - so deleting all of the older ones would mean you wouldn't pass that initial screen.  Even the ones that require four OK's are probably going to be OK if only two of them are recent, and many may place value on you having been hobbying for some time instead of only recently

jaydalee See my TER Reviews 440 reads
posted
12 / 15
Re: Not totally worthless to keep OK's

Posted By: SirWilliam00
Posted By: earthshined
 
  makes too much sense. this is why I delete all old okays. they are pretty useless for screening.
   
 Some providers have listed as many as a minimum of 4-6 OK's - so deleting all of the older ones would mean you wouldn't pass that initial screen.  Even the ones that require four OK's are probably going to be OK if only two of them are recent, and many may place value on you having been hobbying for some time instead of only recently.  
 
I do agree it not worthless to totally delete the old okays off your list.
But if a gent contacts me and all of his okays are from 2-3 yrs ago and no new ones and half of his okays are not even P411 members anymore I am asking for more recent references.

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 462 reads
posted
13 / 15
I just like to see the recent ones, so don't much care if he deletes.

If a guy has 10, 20, or 30 okays, that does not in any way sway my decision on seeing him based on the numbers. As long as he has recent and reputable providers listed, those are the ones I look at. Of course, there are some women I refuse to go behind in my local area, so if I see them on a guy's page, I simply respond, "there is a conflict of interest and I would be happy to recommend someone,"  with nothing further.

Agnar 29 Reviews 492 reads
posted
14 / 15
Thanks!

My references would be the exact same as my okays... so I will stick with the okays speaking for themselves.

Road_Rider 531 reads
posted
15 / 15
Refuse to go behind? (Cooties???)

It's the Cooties, isn't it?

Ain't lettin' that Cootie-Dick touch your Lady-Wang..
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