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Re:Finding the right providers: some advice needed

somethingsmellsfishy 2073 reads

posted 19 years ago

"I need to find those in/near my area who are willing to come to my place (I'm "safe", and married but do not have a car right now) in the Flagstaff, AZ area."-xath69

Don't you think you might want to save up your money to buy a car before you can afford to hobby?

xath6919 years ago4029 reads

Finding the right providers: some advice needed

I am in need of advice of the best way/place to find legitimate providers who travel (no drivers).

I notice that this site is "connected" to DesertDivas (Phoenix) and I live just two hours north of there, so I've only found a couple of providers who could be "prospects" but I don't know if they travel.

I notice on this site, there are a ton of providers, but from all over the place.

Yes, I am new to the "game", and while I've done a lot of "research" and such, I've not really spoken with anyone directly about some issues, so please be patient and perhaps help me out? Would be greatly apprecaited.

I need to find those in/near my area who are willing to come to my place (I'm "safe", and married but do not have a car right now) in the Flagstaff, AZ area.

I'm unsure of a few things though:
1) I've found a couple of independents in the Phoenix area who apparently are willing to travel, but am having difficulty finding many independents. Any suggestions?

2) Since there are so many providers listed in the Phoenix area, all listed as with Agencies, but do not all have pics/sites attached, what is the best way to go about things and making sure I'm not getting myself into a "bad" situation?

Basically, if it helps any to guide me here: I'm in need of honest, trustworthy and very sexual providers in/near/willing to travel up to the Flagstaff, AZ area, whether they are independent or from an agency... just not really sure how to go about this in anything other than a very "sloppy" way (except for asking questions here.. hehe).

If anyone can give me some personal advice and "how-to's" in this situation, it would be a lot more helpful than the info I've found and tried to gather from reading whatever I could come across. I'm just not familiar with the whole "method" and what's better (independent/agency), where to go for either, how to find providers etc.

I'm a very sexual being, and my wife is completely ok with this situation, but I'm having a hard time really "getting it together" and making it happen.

I could go into more detail, but I'm sure you all can get the gist of the type of information/guidance/advice I need here, so I hope to get some good responses.

Thanks in advance

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somethingsmellsfishy19 years ago2074 reads

Re:Finding the right providers: some advice needed

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jazz3219 years ago2026 reads

I thought his circumstances also sounded strange...

... but not a likely threat.

He specifically was looking for ladies to make the 2-3 hour, each way to Flagstaff.

I may be wrong, but I really can't see the Flagstaff PD, or the Cocanino County Sheriff's Department actually enticing top Phoenix ladies into their jurisdiction just to prove they are doing something about the prostitution problem.

And even if it this from Sherrif Joe Arpaio (Phoenix, Maricopa County), the self-proclaimed "world's toughest lawman", trying to find ladies to target, all of the top Phoenix ladies I know can think rings around him.

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transduction19 years ago2328 reads

Re:Finding the right providers: some advice needed

These days, a car can be more of a liability than anything else. Can you take a bus or a cab? Depending on how far they are, it shouldn't cost too much money.

You sound like me. I don't have a car and I'm not married, but I've got plenty of money to pay for escorts. Don't listen to anyone who tells you a car is necessary. A car can be a headache....trust me.

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Built2Spill19 years ago2103 reads

Hey Transduction: He Doesn't Sound Like You

Besides not having a car, he is, unlike yourself, married. And he lives in freakin' Flagstaff. Now when I lived in SF and NYC, I didn't own a car. Great public transportation so didn't need one. If I did I rented.
Where do you live where you don't need a car?

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jazz3219 years ago2450 reads

Some suggestions...

1) Letting her know where you are, and asking if she is willing to come see you is not a problem. Just realize that you will likely pay extra for her travel.

2) Try the Phoenix board. It is generally friendly, lively, and newbie friendly. This time of year you sometimes see ladies advertising that they will be in Flagstaff a couple of days to escape the heat. You can also post yourself, asking if there are ladies who travel.

3) If you are going to play in AZ, you have to discover Phoenix 411. It is an escort advertising service, but with standards. If you see a woman there, she is almost certain to be the real deal.