I am new to this and I don't have any references that many of the providers require. How do I get around this ? Also I don't feel confortable filling out an information form with my personal information on it. I want an confidential expierence.

Gals need to know whom you are for their safety.  That also makes you safer.  How would you feel with a gal who doesn't care that much for her safety?

If you choose someone who is well reviewed, you can rest assured that the odds of that person misusing your personal information are almost nil.

As for having no references, give lots of personal and work information and some gals will see you, especially if you join a screening service like Roomservice 2000 or Datecheck.

There's a lot more about screening you can read up on if you click on the Newbie Manual at the top of the page.

With the nature of the business, of course you'd be uncomfortable giving out personal information. But how do you think we feel? We have to watch out for our safety as well, and make sure to the best of our ability that you 1. arent a cop, and 2. arent going to kill or rob us. Hence the need for references and personal information. You have to give, to get, and if you're unwilling to give enough information about yourself so that we can make sure you are who you say you are, we aren't willing to take the chance and see you.

You can always find a girl that doesn't screen, but that increases your chances that you are walking into a sting, or are going to end up being robbed, ripped off, etc. If she doesn't care about her own safety, why would she care about yours?

Find a well reviewed provider, and be willing to give her the information she needs to verify you. We know what we are doing, and are very discreet about it. You shouldn't have any problems if you find someone with a good reputation.

You can also sign up on one of the verification websites, like Date-Check, Roomservice2000, etc., as a lady might be more willing to see you if you're a verified member. But even then, you are still going to have your personal infomation so that they can verify you. They are professional about it, and very discreet.

So basically, you have three options.

1. Step up, give your information, get verified, and then proceed to get laid and have a fabulous time doing it

2. See someone who doesn't screen, and hope for the best

3. Find a different hobby

4. See a provider with good reviews here who doesn't screen, and then proceed to get laid and have a fabulous time doing it.

They really do exist. They're usually fairly new to the business and likely haven't had any bad experiences yet.

Im with Gabby.... A girl who does not screen is RED FLAG....

Rule #1 to me is stay safe.

To me, safety for all is critical.  How would someone new to the hobby (me) be able to verify that both parties are in fact safe?  I would not want to run into any situations that put either party at risk (police etc...)?  What can a hobbiest do to ensure he/she is dealing with a provider and not LE.

The best thing you can do is to find a well established lady that is well reviewed, and you shouldn't have any problems. This means that she has many reviews, and that overall, they are good. It means she is professional, safe, and takes her job seriously. Including safety for herself and for you. If you don't, you're putting yourself at more risk. There are plenty of ladies out there who are well established, professional, safe, etc, but who operate under the radar, or don't want reviews of themselves out there, but for a newbie, you need to stick to TER ladies until you're a pro.

When you do find someone you are interested in seeing, make sure you all the necessary information she needs to verify you, and if she has a website, make sure you're read all information thoroughly, and know how to conduct yourself in your emails/phone calls/in person. Make sure you read the newbie board! Over and over!

Thank you ver much.

or RS2000.  Depending on your area, some are more widely accepted than others.

Did not a service similar to RS 2000 and Datecheck, called "mnfastpass" get a huge number of people in trouble in Minnesota ?  In one fell swoop, Law Enforcement got a hold of all of the personal information and work information that these "johns" had filled out, to "get verified".  

They are still dangling by their balls, since the dust has not settled yet, with supposed ongoing LE action, behind the scenes, with the treasure trove of SPECIFIC information about the "johns" that they gathered from such "verification" agencies.

I have had several meetings with ladies without any such personal information being recorded as part of "verification".  The lady/ladies have my phone# but that is about it.

What's the guarantee that TER's records won't be accessed by undesirables? (LE)  How do we know it isn't part of an elaborate (admittedly very elaborate) honeytrap?

There should be a Frequently Unasked Questions section...  FUQ!

Dude, relax a little.  Stop watching Bourne movies and get out there to play.

Admittedly, the amount of time and the variety of posts is encouraging. It makes me less paranoid, but that's only a relative thing, so I'm probably more paranoid than most.  

The other part of my post asks what form of immunity TER has to investigation, records siezure, etc...  

How about the others? Datecheck,Myfastpass,P411, etc...

Which service is used most frequently in Minneapolis?  I have enough logins and passwords to keep track of as it is.  I don't want to subscribe to 6 services for that purpose as well.  Does TER do what datecheck and the others do?