I am a newbie and can someone narrate his experience on what to expect and where does the fun end.

Check my first couple of reviews...Claudia and Jennasis were FBSM experiences and fairly typical of what to expect.  Here and there you may find a provider willing to go a little further - DATY in some cases, but almost never a BJ (at least in my experience).  If you still have questions after reading the reviews, PM me.

-PV