I'm getting ready to take the plunge -- omigod that's a bad "so to speak" -- and I'd appreciate some help on the vernacular when making content.

You decide to send someone an email for the first time:

Do you write: "I saw your ad and thought I'd like to see you."

Do you write: "I saw your reviews and I'd like to see you"

Do you ask for a "date."

Do you ask for a "massage" then negotiate for more later on.

Do you mention prices? What about specific activities? Can you ask for a particular look?

What about on the phone?

Do you call for an appointment? A date? Do you get specific?

I think you all get what I'm getting at. I understand the need for discretion on the phone or in an email - for both of us - but ...

anyway - I'm not sure I've been completely clear ... basically, what do you say in an initial email or phone call or phone message ... thanks

You write : Id love to see you . Please get back to me..

Do you mention prices? ( NO) What about specific activities?(NO) Can you ask for a particular look? (NO)

What about on the phone?NO NO NO

Do you call for an appointment? A date? Do you get specific? * Id love to see you "  ( she will go from there )


anyway - I'm not sure I've been completely clear ... basically, what do you say in an initial email or phone call or phone message ...

.. Most often.. girls have forms on their site.. after you fill that out.. they will let you know from there.

Most often they have a "FAQ" .. take her lead from there..

If just a number " hey my name is Bob, id love to see you, can you speak now ? "

whether calling or  emailing, the same rules apply,
Never under any circumstances does one ever discuss money or specific sexual acts.

If calling I start by introducing myself by full name, and where I am calling from if she or I are traveling. I generally begin my first contact with a new lady by stating that I have been admiring her ad online and am interested in meeting her in person; asking for a "date", "appointment", etc. are generally acceptable too. Being specific about time/day you would like to meet and if you prefer incall or outcall can be helpful, especially in email. She will usually inform you of her availability, so you may want to have an alternate time or flexible schedule. If the two of you can coordinate schedules, she will hopefully explain what her screening process involves; if not you may ask/offer what information she would like about you. Make certain that each of you knows and understands how you will confirm the appointment the day of, if necessary, and how, where you will finally meet face to face. Usually this is a phone call upon your arrival at the incall location for room number. This process can sometimes be drawn out over multiple calls/emails over several days, so be patient and plan ahead. It is sometimes a good idea to make a first contact asking for her availabilty and screening and then proceed with a second contact to discuss/make arrangements.

Above all, just be a gentleman at all times, and keep to the business at hand, you will have plenty of time to talk during your time together.
good luck and play safe, mr.man