99% of the things that I told you, I learned here on TER from the message boards, from reading reviews, and from asking questions. (I think I can perhaps take credit for 1% of it, at best
Its kind of an awkward catch 22 that the best source of information for you is other providers, but you can't get access to the Providers only board to ask your questions until you have a few reviews under your belt. Sort of like showing up for the party as the revelers are collecting their coats and heading home.
However, I have sent many private messages to ladies whose comments on the board raised questions for me, and whose opinions I respect after reading their posts and viewing their websites and reviews. Every last lady that I have messaged with a question that I felt was perhaps not appropriate for open discussion, the lady has been gracious and happy to share their wisdom and experience with me.
TER is truly a welcoming and helpful community with some absolutely awesome people in it. Finding it is the best thing that could have happened to me.
PS feel free to e-mail or PM me anytime with questions. Given how wonderful others have been to me, I can do no less for you.
Hey ya'll, i'm new at providing so i'm just ridiculously curious about some of the "ins and outs" of this spectacular trade. What is touring? Do only leading ladies tour because of demand? I'm asking this because i live in a fairly small college town but close to nashville tn. and louisville ky. Advertising in my town is a death wish. I would like to go to nashville or louisville for a few days here and there to have some providing fun and funding. What am i supposed to do? I do not have a website, should i make one? I also don't want many clients. i have one right now. i want 3 or 4 to start. i don't want to be with 4 guys a day though. If i were to advertise going to these cities, would anyone want me, for i'm not known at all?
You definitely need a website,complete with photos,rates,availability,contact information,information about yourself,a calendar showing what days and what cities you'll be in,etc.Also,I would put on your website that you're "A low volume provider",meaning that you'll only see a few guys each day.
Some ladies tour exclusively,some don't tour at all,while others tour part of the time.Only you can decide what's best for your situation.BTW,anytime you feel like touring Philly,let me know....I'll book you immediately!
Here is a laundry list of tips and suggestions....
Yes, you'll need a website. Click the link at the bottom of this post. I use a website called rare-escort.com for my website, and its free. It doesn't cost me a penny. The layout and colors are done for you, and all you'll have to do is add your text and photos.
Touring is when a lady travels to another city. It is not limited to the leading ladies, although before you actually start touring (if you do) it is best to have several reviews in order to get a better response. Going to Nashville or Louisville isn't necessarily the same thing though. Like you, I live in a relatively small town, but live close to bigger cities. Every few weeks I travel to Kansas City for a day or two and book a hotel room there.
I made my first trip to Kansas City for an incall day there before I had many reviews, and had little trouble filling my schedule. Going to someplace close to home shouldn't be difficult even without any reviews yet. Pics at the very least though, are crucial.
If you decide to do that, be selective about what hotel you stay at. You don't need to stay at a 5 star hotel, but stay away from the bargain basement places too. A cheap seedy hotel is a real turn off to many men. Not to mention the fact that you are planning to be in that hotel room for a day or two. Select a hotel that is comfortable and pleasant to stay in.
There is no need to see many clients per day. I never take more than two to three appointments in a single day. I honestly can't imagine trying to see more than that, though I know that many women do. When I advertise I generally say something like "Limited times available". Honestly though, you don't need to explain that to men. If you have all the appointments you feel you can handle, simply tell anyone else who contacts you that you are booked up for that day.
As far as where and how to advertise, you can advertise here on TER, on the "other cities" board. If you go to the other cities board, you'll see the post I just entered yesterday about my next trip to KC. Its pretty straightforward, giving the dates I'll be there and providing my link. Stay away from CraigsList, but consider an ad on Eros. There are literally dozens of websites on the internet dedicated to escorts. The website link that I gave you also contains a list of close to 100 different sites that you can create listings on in order to get your name out there.
Hope these tips get you pointed in the right direction. Feel free to private mail me or e-mail me if you have more questions. Good luck to you and above all, have FUN!
sinsoftheflesh, i'm in reverence of you! all of your help has truly been appreciated. thank you so very much for sharing your wisdom! Bisous
99% of the things that I told you, I learned here on TER from the message boards, from reading reviews, and from asking questions. (I think I can perhaps take credit for 1% of it, at best
Its kind of an awkward catch 22 that the best source of information for you is other providers, but you can't get access to the Providers only board to ask your questions until you have a few reviews under your belt. Sort of like showing up for the party as the revelers are collecting their coats and heading home.
However, I have sent many private messages to ladies whose comments on the board raised questions for me, and whose opinions I respect after reading their posts and viewing their websites and reviews. Every last lady that I have messaged with a question that I felt was perhaps not appropriate for open discussion, the lady has been gracious and happy to share their wisdom and experience with me.
TER is truly a welcoming and helpful community with some absolutely awesome people in it. Finding it is the best thing that could have happened to me.
PS feel free to e-mail or PM me anytime with questions. Given how wonderful others have been to me, I can do no less for you.
I live in Reno, at any given moment around here, there are probably 2 touring girls for every 1 local. Rates in Reno are a little higher than Sacramento, so the girls take a 'vacation' to Reno. I don't know about your area, but le busts are usually incalls, alot of guys here won't go to an incall for that reason. Several years ago, I met a touring provider thru her website. It was the only incall I've ever done, I had a great time with her, and I gave her my email address. (Most, if not all, hobbiests have a private email, for obvious reasons). Whenever she would come to Reno, she would always email me, and usually, we'd schedule a time, sometimes two. I sure wish she was still in the business!! P.S. if you can get a website, you can get reviewed here, it helps alot.
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