Hi there, I'm a newbie, I browsed through these boards and didn't come across a thread that addressed this, but....what's the protocol on asking a provider to wear something in particular?  Like if you saw her wearing something you liked in a certain picture, or if you were thinking schoolgirl or nurse outfit or something?

However, be prepared, sometimes for newbs we wont or dont.. risky to maybe be hauled away in a  short skirt and stilettos Or a school girl outfit

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Ask her to bring the outfit and put it on before the session starts. Discretion is important in this business. You must realize that the provider will have to pass many eyes on her path to you.

I always ask them to wear sexy shoes, which almost always turn out to be the topless dancer platform shoes, which I specifically indicate I don't want. I usually specify "the type of shoes you would wear with a black cocktail dress" which to me is something with a heel, pspossibly a slingback strap, and lots of open space in front. So yer can't win.  Or at least i can't [nothing new there, sadly].

Until you've seen a provider a while and built up some sort of a relationship, clothing requests are an iffy thing, especially for a daytime or early evening outcall.

When you're visiting her incall, though, I think she ought to take the troble to accomodate you.

Well, good luck to you.

wow thanks for all the replies everybody!  i will heed this advice!