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Stern Fan 9079 reads
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Full service WAS covered; UNcovered bbbj.

Condom was intact throughout.

Sorry AVS but I'm not going to name her.

Thanks again

Stern Fan9683 reads

I recently met with a well reviewed provider -- enjoyed bbbjtcim as well as fs.  Now I have an STD. Should I notify her or not?

I am not the least bit angry. I took a calculated risk & I feel totally responsible for this. I'm just wanting to do the right thing with regard to her well being.

By the way, I know 100% it came from this session -- no question.

Thanks!

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Avsfan047946 reads

I'd notify her and anyone you know who has seen her. I'm kind of wondering who the provider in question is. If it's the one I have a review here for let me know.

-- Modified on 12/23/2004 9:35:27 PM

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Gothicman7370 reads

Did you say that you had FS uncovered, or did you say you had BBBJCIM and covered full sex?

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Stern Fan9080 reads

Full service WAS covered; UNcovered bbbj.

Condom was intact throughout.

Sorry AVS but I'm not going to name her.

Thanks again

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lifer8713 reads

damn, dude, i'm sorry to hear that!
that sucks.
which STD do you think it is??

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frankie2003a8348 reads

That's because either she knows she had something or she
doesn't.  In both cases there is absolutely no harm done by
notifying her, but in the latter case, of course, you are doing
her a service.


-- Modified on 12/23/2004 9:28:04 PM

-- Modified on 12/23/2004 9:28:38 PM

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SweetTina8827 reads

You say in the title you might have something but then in your posts you say you have something. Which is it? Are you sure you have something or do you think you have something? Just a note I knew a male who told me he got something from his girlfriend and come to find out it was a problem with his prostate so it could be that too if you are not sure that you are infected or not

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Avsfan047772 reads

Those are all good questions Tina. Hopefully he'll answer them for us.

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Stern Fan7274 reads

I am 99 percent sure I caught herpes from my last encounter with a provider. Due to holiday travel, I have not been able to see a physician yet. However, I have an appt. with my primary care doctor this afternoon. We will see. I will keep you posted.

I am aware that it could be something besides an STD. Not only is the prostate a possible source of trouble for guys, but also I could just have a yeast infection -- not all that unusual for guys like me who are uncut.

Keep your fingers crossed for me.....

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Avsfan047831 reads

Hoping for the best for you.  What kind of symptoms have you shown to make you think it's herpes? How long ago was your encounter with the provider in question?

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diaperman7856 reads

Sounds like your driping. If so its only a shot. Hopefully its not herpes. Do you have big sores?

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newbie327461 reads

Here is a link you might find useful. Several of these appear to come from individuals seeing providers or engaged in casual encounters.

Play safe!

Related Link: http://www.medhelp.org/perl6/STD/wwwboard.html

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kingjholla8944 reads

A while back i recieved oral sex from a girl (not a provider) and had a problem pop up.  I was scared to DEATH and was 99% sure it was herpes (red blotches, burning) but blisters never formed (I was SURE they would).  When you start to see things down there you assume thats what it is but it turned out it was a fungal thing, and my doctor assured me herpes transmission from oral sex with no visable sores was very unlikely.  I did become very educated on the matter through the ordeal, however, and i posted some info in another thread.  So if you dont have blisters, relax, see a doctor and hopefully get fixed up.  Oh yeah and herpes can lie dormant for months or years in your nerves before stress or illness triggers and outbreak, so also something to think about.

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Stern Fan7459 reads

I saw my GP today, and he is 99% sure my problem is not herpes - or any other STD for that matter. We discussed the specifics of my "session", and he's convinced that it was too much friction (and probably teeth) that caused my penis to become inflamed like this. And I should report it is doing much better every day.

Also, following my urologist's advice I had been using Lamosil on the reddened area. (I called him from out of town and he told me it could just be a yeast infection, so he suggested the over the counter stuff.) My GP argued that because that particular cream is part steroid as well as an anti-funggil, it has caused the skin in that area to become even more sensitive. So it could have caused the problem to linger even longer. He advised that I discontinue the Lamosil and see how things heal up over the next week or so. Of course, if there's any change for the worse, blah, blah, blah, call back and get in to see him again.

Needless to say, I am quite relieved. And I am EXTREMELY glad I did not share the provider's name. I was never going to do that, by the way. I would never want to hurt anyone else. And like I said in my first post, I take full responsibility for whatever happened because I knew the risks going in. Actually, I think this is a good lesson for hobbyists to keep the confidences of our providers, just as we (most of us anyway) wish they would for us too. It's a two-way street here, gents.

I'm sorry I worried some of you guys. Hopefully it is nothing. But I still have a 1% chance it could be something, and if it turns out bad I will let you know. Otherwise, I'll shut up.

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Avsfan048327 reads

Glad to hear things are looking good.

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SweetTina6936 reads

That's good. I know you are relieved. Friction was a problem with a boyfriend of mine before I started providing. I loved having him pull my panties aside before he penetrated me and as a result he got sores and blisters on his pee pee so we had to stop doing it that way. I had to take my underwear completely off because the blisters were causing him pain.

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Stern Fan6682 reads

It's funny you mention the problem of soreness with your old bf. I too have had problems before with soreness, especially with a long-term gf who liked to go from zero to 60 in five seconds flat. She liked me to enter her and just start pounding away while she was still dry. Well, every time we tried that, it would cause tears where I am the most sensitive -- under my foreskin. That's more like the problem I'm having right now.

And I would wager that I am more sensitive than the average joe because I am uncircumsized. When I saw my doctor, he suggested that I should get circumsized. He swears it will improve my sex life, and cut out this kind of problem. But I am so attached to that little piece of me that I don't think I can give it up. I can't even imagine life as a circumsized guy.

Anybody have any thoughts/advice?

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SweetTina6939 reads

Your doctor mentioned you should get circumsized??? I am surprised because studies supposedly says that men with foreskin have better sex than non cut men, yada yada yada. My bf who I did this with was cut and he still got the sores when we had sex with my panties pulled to the side. If your girlfriend was dry then it would give you some bruising too. If you are with a SO make sure she is wet. (not hard to do. lol) If you do DATY or if she is like me and would insist that you do it there shouldn't be any problems with hard pounding sex as she will be properly lubed unless she has problems getting wet. If that's the case use some lubriation like astroglide however for me saliva is my favorite lube. :)Are you satisfied with your foreskin? If you are, keep it. I don't see why you should get rid of it. Just make sure your woman is lubed and wet and ready.

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Stern Fan6841 reads

Yeah, I am perfectly happy to be uncut. And I plan to stay that way. He suggested I get circumsized to get rid of ever have the problem of yeast infection under there again. And he said it would toughen me up and make my sex life better. Seems to me that would make sex LESS enjoyable!

For another discussion sometime, we should discuss whether uncircumsized men are discriminated against by some women. (Note: I did not say "provider.")  But there may be some of that too....

BTW: I love to DATY!! My ex-gf did not want that. She was never fresh smelling, no matter how much she cleaned. It embarrassed her, so no fun for me. However, she could easily O from vaginal and anal sex. So she got her rocks off without it.

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eyescube7758 reads

I would never get cut! All men are born with foreskin for a reason. It has become automatic procedure upon birth here. Unfortunately, due to some guys' improper hygiene and/or risky activity, it's been given a poor rap in this country. I am a stickler for cleanliness and have never in my life had infections, problems or anything foul (knock on wood). And yes, we should start another discussion about this subject. I am curious about other people's views beyond the people I know.

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southern_man8291 reads

"toughen up".  I have read that American men request oral sex because of decreased stimulation from intercourse.  The penis toughens and cannot feel as much in the vagina.

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