A well reviewed lady has asked me to send a
Pic of myself for the fact that I have no oks
on P411. Is this normal? Not sure I feel right
about that

No, this is def not normal and highly unprofessional. You have no idea what she will do with that pic and with today's Photoshop technology...we'll...a lot of bad can come from it.  

what if a provider wants a pic of my ID?  is that unusual?

the fact that I am female, so I assume that some providers need proof ( or maybe fap material! ). Sometimes I will send one with my face blurred or from the neck down, for privacy.

Some girls, when seeing someone new will use alternative screening methods for them to feel safe. While I don't knock them for asking, it is their life at potential risk, it doesn't mean I should comply to it.

Then she is probably okay.
Personally, I wouldn't send my photo or personal info to individual ladies, but that is my choice - I play this game very safely.
For many guys, this isn't a concern, and they provide this info to ladies who have stricter screening (FYI, I do almost all my arranging through P411).

You might as well send your name, address and occupation. Maybe you don't care about having your identity exposed. If not, why not use your real name rather than a handle. Assuming that you would prefer to keep your P4P activities private, then the answer is HELL NO. Find other providers -- they are out there.

So far it's worked like a charm.

Her ads say, "no pic no visit." She is well reviewed on another site. Many have complied with her picture request and have been satisfied. Her policy us also discussed on the forum on that other site and many guys refuse to see her because the picture request. You know what? Apparently it works for her and she gets enough business.  

...he thinks this is George Clooney.

Thanks All!  
I'll keep searching for others

Call it corny, but sometimes I'll send a pic (big head of course) shortly before I'm supposed to meet with a provider.  My reasoning behind this is that us hobbyists have a decent idea what they look like, but they have no idea what we look like.  so, hopefully it increases their comfort level!

Quite honestly, it's a business transaction and I don't think it matters much who's behind the door.  Clients are not potential boyfriends.

When I was just starting out, I came across a lady I wanted to see.  She was a frequent poster on one of the regional Boards and had universal respect.   She insisted on employment verification, AND wanted an image.  When she first saw me, she wanted to make sure I was who I said I was.  I agreed, and it was probably the only time, since I now have references, and can avoid this risk.  I did my homework before agreeing, including reading every post she ever made.   She seemed real solid.  

Like everyone else has said, NEVER send your pic or any other personal info.