hello TER world!
I'm new to this and I've just joined TER. I didn't even know anything like this existed, but this site is AWESOME, the relationship and rapport you hobbyists and providers have on this site is truly something special. I've been thoroughly researching and reviewing to get as acquainted with this site and all of the elements of hobbying as quickly (and as sufficiently) as possible before i see my first provider. Given this fact, I have also done several searches on the question I'm about to ask and I've really only discovered a few posts that indirectly address but didn't give an answer satisfactory to my concerns. So here goes.

Will provider's decline to see a client based on what his job is? I mean, I'm a 21 yr old college student (and I've already checked the age requirement thread), but I've calculated (and budgetted) that I can comfortably afford to see 1 or 2 providers a month even given some of the higher donation rates, but that message isn't relaly conveyed just giving my job title, what do you guys thing?

Actually I found a somewhat comprehensive reply under "self-employment screening". That's probably why I couldnt find it the first few times around. Anyway, I'd still like to hear some additional thoughts if there are any.

actually not all women do job screening. Personally I don't care what someone does for a living as long as they pay me what I asked. I like men in suits but I like blue collar workers as well.
You might run into someone who is going to pass judgment over whatever your job title is, but do you really want to see someone who does? Good luck on your search

refuse to see you based on your age.  Many providers will not see guys under 30,35, or even 40.

So good luck.  BTW, their refusal to see you has nothing to do with your ability to pay.  They don't give a damn what you make, or do for a living, as long as the envelope has the right amount in it.  It's your age that stops them.  Search for threads about age requirements.

Swim

aw well now I'm just sad, haha. What about like an arranged platonic meeting for the same donation to make sure I'm not a complete douchebag or something? drawing from your experience do you think someone would take me up on that? Thank you for the response by the way, very direct, and with conviction, haha.

johnk224,  

I was considering proposing a similar screening protocol.  I would gladly do a pre-date platonic screening meeting in lieu of a phone call to my boss.

What do providers think of this idea?

Doc

What is it about age?

I'm in my early 30's but people guess (from my appearance) that I am 5-10 years younger. Will a provider freak out when she opens the door and sees a 20-something, when I am really not?

For screening, it may help if you have a school email account.  As far as your age, it probably will work against you.  In your communication, make sure you come across as a mature, classy gentleman and not a kid.

just don't know how to treat a lady.  All they want to do is pound me every which way for the whole time."  You need to convince the lady you want to see that you want more out of the experience than 3-4 cups in 15 positions within your hour.

Most ladies want to be tickled not stabbed for an hour.  Guys over 35 is the norm for established escorts. Stability, one or 2 cups max is usually whats on the menu. No hassle about price and an appreciation for what the lady gives you.  Her time and body and they are to be appreciated and coveted.  Older guys seem to be able to do that better than the younger ones....my 2 cents

If someone wants to do a social meeting at my full rate that's fine, but frankly it wouldn't replace my screening.  Reputable providers know how to check employment discreetly.

The best way to avoid LE is to simply never be face to face with them.  Only screened gents are allowed my unblurred and cropped face.  Some ladies screen to avoid family, friends and others in their industry.  How would your suggestion help with their comfort and security?

In over six years of employment screenings I can't recall a single time that I've ever spoken with someones boss.

There are ladies who insist on meet and greets as part of their screening, you might want to keep looking until you find them.

I disagree somewhat. If that is what a guy wants there is someone out there willing to provide it.

ahhh touche solalove, touche

i guess i'll just join a verification service and hope that's enough for some providers. What about facebook? i could make my facebook public for them too, i mean it can't be much in itself but it could help right?

What makes one lady comfortable will not work for another.  For me - if we do not have mutual friends who say that you are a great guy (references) then I insist on knowing and verifying exactly who you are and that your occupation is not at direct odds with mine. Period. My life, personal freedom and physical well being are  on the line.

Me? I wouldn't accept just a verification service, and while the facebook wouldn't hurt... It does very little with my screening unless it is an open book with lots of leads to the info that I seek. AND at the point that I've spent an hour trying to Susa out the info I ask for up front - I'm going to be irritated and not likely interested in meeting. He'll, if you haven't done your homework enough to know that you can trust me, you have no business putting yourself in a vulnerable and intimate position with me, IMHO.  Seriously, you'll put your cock in a ladies mouth but not tell her your name?  Men amuse me greatly!


My best wishes in finding those perfect matches!

However, some ladies will be perfectly happy with a verification service.