I was burned by a girl from the backpage.com today. the picture was phony, the girl was a nightmare, i should have walked out

Did you google the ladies telephone # ? That's a quick step to see if she is legit. Get yourself VIP membership to TER, you will see the juicy details. Join one of the dating referral services, And remember to see only ladies who are well reviewed on TER and screen their clients. Good luck. And don't toftt yet, once you get experienced and you want to live dangerously you can toftt....

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VIP so you can read the reviews.  Only see ladies with multiple reviews (4 or 5 minimum) by established hobbyists (4 or 5 reviews over time).  This web site can be a great resource if you use it.

About once a day, and they still TOFTT and get burned.  Like most that start a new hobby, they know better. lol

fucked in not a nice way, and in a way, it's your own fault.  You obviously did not do your research.  You probably have been too cheap to get VIP membership here.  Thus you got what you paid for.  Sorry if this sounds harsh, but it is a story that keeps coming up over and over by guys that don't listen to the big head.

Get VIP, and do your damn research.  Ask veteran hobbyists for help, we will tell you about girls if you just ask!

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You can see if a provider is real or not without paying this website.

thanks for all the input!!

I've read plenty of reviews where the unlocked portion basically says the guy showed, 2call, blah, blah, blah.

Then the actual VIP review goes into detail about upselling, or vomit breath, or smelly crotch, or the worst BJ or coldest-dead sex he's ever had, etc, etc.

Yes, I would say that to make the most of your Hobby $, VIP is worthwhile.

And what sort of performance rating would this smelly crotched, vomit breathed, worst BJ giving, coldest-dead lay have?

That's what I'm thinking about as i think again...

IMHO, one needs TER VIP.  I did not start on TER & was lucky at first.  Then I got taken.  I compared some providers on other sites (provider driven) & found the truth when I checked here.  TER does not allow reviews to be posted from provider's computers!  

The TER numbers do not tell it all.  While chemistry varies, I look for a narrow range of ratings.  Say an average of 7 might have a range of 6-7-8.  (+/- 1)  I also look for the type of experience I'm looking for.  

The cost of VIP is far less than one wasted opportunity or wasted date.  
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