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Re: You can't get references until you see someone who doesn't require them

niceenuf 40 Reviews 524 reads

posted 15 years ago

Same story here, first time I had to provide a little more verification info but no biggie. She was an agency girl so I had to do the same thing the second time with an indy girl...a e-mail explaining and viola...verified and a provider who would refer me.

darkbaable15 years ago1807 reads

Refferences

If you are new to Escorts how do you get refferences?

Everyone that I have seen asks for atleast two refferences. If you have never done this before nor known anyone who has. How do you get these refferences?

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manypoppins15 years ago1189 reads

You can't get references until you see someone who doesn't require them

You may have to look for a while to find someone who doesn't require references. I got lucky and got appointments with the first two providers I tried, and those were the two references I needed to see all the rest.

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24805015 years ago948 reads

Re: You can't get references until you see someone who doesn't require them

in lieu of references, you can join a site like datecheck or p411 to get verified that way...providers who are members of those site should accept you, but...

...the previous poster for the most part is correct...my first time i was honest with the person i called and said "this is m first time and i'm really nervous about calling" and some providers may have their sixth sense tell them you're okay, maybe, so you may try that

good luck

heinous

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niceenuf15 years ago525 reads

Re: You can't get references until you see someone who doesn't require them

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Retrojoke15 years ago660 reads

Re: You can't get references until you see someone who doesn't require them

Yeh well im a p411 member and i was told by an indy that i still needed 2 references. I think an agency will just have to due. As much as i hate that.

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GaGambler15 years ago1085 reads

Not all indies will require references

I only ive out references once out of about every fifty providers I see. Many ask for references, but most will accept some other form of screening.

Some women are very rigid about their screening techniques and will not deviate from them, in those cases I just move on. No hard feeling, but I am only willing to jump through so many hoops to spend my money.

I am not necessarily recommending my approach to others, just putting in my $.02, which has worked out quite well for me in my 35+ years of doing this.

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TiffaniJameson15 years ago1149 reads

There are ways to be screened without references, just don't be afraid to comply...

Pick a lady that's newbie friendly, and will be a reference for you, help you get set up on Date-check, and Okay you on P411. Understand she has to be comfortable too guys.

I can see the reason for not using references, cause sometimes they can hinder your own progress. Because I do my own screening, and a guy having references is a bonus, if a lady doesn't respond for whatever reason, it doesn't matter.