Ok. So say a guy wants to lose his V-card and decides to call an escort. Should he mention it to her, or no? Also , do you think the lady would allow him to go more than once considering the first time might be extremely quick . Thanks in advance for any advice.

She is going to find out anyway so best to be upfront. But do you have verification for you to see a lady yet? If you are a V then you have no references so you will need to go to DateCheck or P411. Tell her after you are verified as any sex talk before may make her suspicious and not get back to you. And dont talk about sex at all, just that you are a vegetarian. (sorry, I couldnt resist! lol). I would choose a more experienced provider for your situation.

Many ladies will let you to pop as often as you can if you book at least an hour, but if you have a VIP membership here you can use the database to find out. Since this is your first time in more ways than one, I would give yourself more time.

Book a 2 hour date so you can relax and she can put you more at ease rather than jumping right in. You also dont know what your recovery time will be either between pops so more time would be beneficial with that as well.

Best!

Thanks. Do you think any high end escorts would see me without being verified? I dont mind spending extra, would rather be discreet about this.

They need to be discreet too. Its their profession to be discreet. But they cant be if they see guys that arent verifiable. DateCheck and P411 are very discreet. But there are no guarantees in life. If you want to swim in the ocean, there is always a chance a shark will eat you. But how often does that happen? The game is to cut down your risk as best you can but you will never eliminate it entirely.

Forget that.....get verified and stop worrying and have fun!

Be selective in the provider you like and tell her she is special, and exactly why.  Save it for in person though. If you pick the right lady she will enjoy it too!

GOOD LUCK!

If she is quality provider, you will probably not be the first one she has deflowered.  She will know how to handle you.  As far as multiple pops are concerned, that info should be on her profile.  So, if you do not have VIP membership, get it, it's worth it.  Besides, you can't really do good research without it.

Joining a verification site might be a good idea too, since you have no references.

Swim

While many escorts don't much care who they take money from, I certainly do and I don't want to deal with that. It is just like any other preference women have like not seeing black men, overweight men, or guys under or over a certain age. Everyone has their little quirks.

Unless the extra amount you pay is bail money, and will give me my life and career back after such a humiliating bust, no thanks.

This was me.
I took the plunge and had a great time.
Here is what I did (after really reading all I could on this site).
I found a well-reviewed provider who appealed to me.
I first emailed the provider and asked if she would be willing to see me without references if I joined P411.  This was a friendly introductory email in which I also provided general info about myself, including my extreme "lack of experience" - as I wanted to be upfront about that to make sure she would was okay with this.  Also note, I wanted to get the point across without using the v word.  I told her would that I would be interested in a two hour session. Of course I was excited when I got an affirmative reply.  With this assurance, I decided to take the plunge and joined P411.  I was approved within 24 hours.  I provided my P411 # to the provider and was set, making an appointment for two days later.  Had a wonderful time with an amazing lady who I will see again.  Since most well-reviewed providers don't advertise as being newbie friendly, I was initially concerned - thus my email before even joining P411.

So, while I'm no expert in this whole P4P game, this approach worked for me so I'd recommend it.

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