Hello,
Your post sounds straight from my Eros ad.
Well, I have that disclaimer in hopes that I don't receive one liner emails such as "Do you do...such and such...?
Hopefully if the gent is contacting me he has done some research on me and has confidence that I will be what he is looking for.
I do however after screened ask some personal questions expecially if he doesn't review to see what exactly is he seeking so I can be well prepared.
Don't let that disclaimer scare you off if she is searchable if not it will probably be a TOFFT situation and a good read for your fellow gents.
or the phone conversation will be terminated how do you ask questions about services if there is no menu on the ad or no reviews on the lady? If you go to see a lady and hand her the donation only to find she does not provide all of the services that you desire are you allowed to ask for you money back before any action takes place or clothes removed?
no web site & no reviews... it's strictly TOFTT or stick to well reviewed ladies. Since this is in the newbie board, I must recommend passing on this one for now & circle back later & see if there are some reviews. Amature, unprofessional... Too much chance of some scam. You can ask if she has reviews somewhere.
No, Refunds are not likely. You could walk out but that can be a risk too. If you've screened with her, would likely end up on her DNS for sure.
skb
not your little head. SKB covered just about everything, but it's reall simple. Do not see ladies that you've descirbed in your post. Everything you need to know should be covered in her web site and her reviews. If she doesn't have either, I would move on. Good luck
Reviews exists for a reason. Regardless of how hot an indy or agency provider from an unknown or poorly rated agency is, the chances of you meeting someone other than the woman in the picture is high and the chance of you getting ripped off equally high. Stay with providers that have reviews until you develop a sense of how to filter through bullshit.
Hello,
Your post sounds straight from my Eros ad.
Well, I have that disclaimer in hopes that I don't receive one liner emails such as "Do you do...such and such...?
Hopefully if the gent is contacting me he has done some research on me and has confidence that I will be what he is looking for.
I do however after screened ask some personal questions expecially if he doesn't review to see what exactly is he seeking so I can be well prepared.
Don't let that disclaimer scare you off if she is searchable if not it will probably be a TOFFT situation and a good read for your fellow gents.
#1 Never ask for specific services on the phone...that will surely get you hung up on. This is why we have reviews and a profile and website. However, I do not state on my site what I do. Why? I don't want anything to give LE anymore excuse. YES...they will get you to agree to things on the phone and then you are done..
#2..Never hand her the donation. Follow through with how she likes to have her donation given to her. Myself, I prefer your drivers license (as I do check it) and it in an unsealed envelope. Please do not discuss it...that is another sure fire LE tactic..
#3..Getting your funds back...Highly unlikely. Now I have given funds back for Greek if it just didn't happen by no one's fault or I didn't know ahead of time and it didn't happen. However, generally, don't expect to get refunded since you are paying her for her time.
Hope this helps.
Makenzie
Re: #2, the envelope is no protection, none at all. If your web site or ad says place envelope on the table, and the cop puts an envelope on the table, and then someting sexual proceeds, there is more than enough evidence of an intent to solicit. They don't need you to say "I am hereby selling sexual services for cash" for them to get you.
Don' t fool yourself.
by any means...actually I prefer no envelope...(just realized I mentioned about the envelope in my response---hey a girl can have a bad day)...most importantly and my point was to not hand it to her.
And I "SCREEEN" thoroughly...no exceptions..9 chances out of 10 the cops do not bother with the ladies that screen EVERYTIME..
I also do not do same day appts...usually another sure fire way that it is a sting.
But I never said anything is fool proof. I would never say that..
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in my ads. It means I don't want to hear how big your penis is, i won't answer questions about specific sexual acts, and I don't want to hear how you want to lick me from here to there or whatever. I expect that by the time a gentleman calls me he has read my reviews and website and knows what type service I provide. Questions about availability should be the only thing left for him to ask, if he has done his research.
If the lady has no reviews, and you are a newbie then stay away or be prepared to have a not so good experience.
1. What does TOFFT mean? LOL
2. I will be honest I don't have the type of $ to book sessions with TER ladies or those that charge $300/hr for a legitimate GFE sesssion. I am a BP hobbyist true and and true so I know 99% percent of the time everything is covered and there is no website or reviews. I was just wondering is there a way to find out if she may be that 1% that may actually be GFE as it states on her ad or would she offer BBBJ without just gambling with your time.
3. To the provider who said a refund is unlikely because you are paying for her time. If you book a 30 min session and leave after 3 minutes and no sexual act has gone done what time are you really paying for? Are you suggesting that if a girl charges $125 for the session and you get there and you decide to pass you should give her a little something just for wasting her time? That sounds like b.s. to me.
4. At one point once you enter the room is it acceptable to ask about specific services?
As an experienced BP guy, I'll say you between get used to some disappointment .
1. Some guys are pervs, and looking for a way to have freakie phone sex.
2. Proivders don't wanna talk about sex acts, cause it could be LE on the otherside.
I've met providers before, and didn't have sex with them, because after I made it there I just wasn't feeling them. After meeting the provider, and I decide I want to have the session, thats when I pull the money out.
I'm sorry if I meet you and don't want to have a session with you for whatever reason, it's highly unlikely a provider's going to go into "my pocket" and take my money out.
Check for a personal site and be thorough when looking through it & see what she does or doesn't do and reviews help too but reviews like mine don't always focus on the other things I can provide so....but yes look for a site & reviews so you don't get jipped.