I guess I'm still a newbie so here are more questions:

1. Sometimes I see the number of VIP days remaining and sometimes I don't and I can't figure out how to find that info when I want it. Where is it? I'm looking all over account manager.

2. Some of us (for example, me) have no posted reviews. Can we still be whitelisted? I guess it varies from provider to provider, but is a single pleasant meeting enough for whitelisting or does it usually come from something more, like several reliable, enjoyable experiences? Is whitelist just a list or is there other (hidden) info, like ratings of us guys (appearance and performance)?

3. I'll read this and other Boards from the top (newest) down until I reach stuff I've seen before. Yet sometimes I'm POSITIVE that I see a new post or two appearing within the older stuff. I'm thinking that this must a moderated post that was delayed but given a posting date and time of the original submission time. You know what I mean:

1 PM
new-1
new-2
old-3
old-4

10 PM
newer-1
newer-2
new-1
new-2
old-3
newer-3 :---- where did this come from?
old-4

Is that about right? Always scroll down a little extra for those delayed posts?

VIP days are always in Account Manager tab under the Edit My Profile link. If the "VIP Days Remaining" is blank or has a 0 next to it, it means you are not a VIP member and can't send, read PM's or use an alias.

Not sure how whitelisting works but I think a provider can still whitelist you without you having to submit a review for her. You still have to see her though.

No standards for whitelisting, it can be one good meeting or several. Whitelist is not really a list, more like a badge of honor from one provider to another letting them know you are cool. Providers who whitelist you can be seen under your reviews.

No hidden info in whitelist, just a list...lol

For the last one. Yeah, moderated posts or edited posts will show up later when approved with original time stamp.

Since the whitelist appears at the bottom of your review history, there would be no place for the white list to appear.

I have a couple Whitelists and never posted a review?

Search by Reviewer.

The screen below came up indicating that you have no reviews AND no white listings.

How would anyone ever find out if you have said Whitelistings?

(Note, VIP is necessary to search by reviewer.)

I believe that I have 5 or 6.  Can you name them???

"SEARCH WHITE LIST: LITTLE PHIL'S REFERRALS

Below is a list of providers that have seen and will personally vouch for this member. You can see the providers profile by clicking on their names.


Selected member does not currently have white list referrals."

So you are saying mine is useless without reviews??  Damn it anyway.

Well at least I know myself that a couple gals said something about me. I hope good,  but I guess it doesn't matter.

I have the display of mine turned off.  I just checked, and there are currently 5 of them.  One other lady has been delisted and another got spooked at the thought of them being there and pulled all of hers.  So, seven in total, but the display shows zero.

If you would please mrfisher,  try again!  I turned something on!

Is a wonder anyone has seen me.  I bet they thought I was lying about whitelists all these years. Thanks