To DATY or Not to DATY

Well it not my thing and the last thing I want to do is offend a provider and make her think it has something to do with her.  I’m just not that into it, maybe once I’ve know someone for a long time, maybe………

Really though how do you tell them.  I know it a preference thing like covered BJ or BBBJ.



Thanks
Mark

This is YOUR fantasy, and a good provider understands that and wants nothing more than for you to leave with a silly grin on your face, treat her like a lady, and make sure the envelope is right.

No need to mention.  A good provider will either ask want you want to do and if DATY is not your cup of tea, she won't feel offended...I think.

quite i honestly, i am with you. i would rather wait to know someone for a little while before i allow DATY. but if he really wants to, i also have no problem with it. i do love it. it all depends on what you want. you are the client, it is your hard earned money, it is up to the provider to show you a great time. i dont offer it to the client during our time together, if he asks or suggests at it though, it is ok with me. and if it not what he wants, thats fine too. i am not offended in any way.

just my my thoughts.

crystal

You don't need to tell her. Just don't do it. Not all guys are into DATY. For those that enjoy it, more power to them. If its not your thing though, then just enjoy the activities that you enjoy.

No pressure here, if it's not your thing it's not your thing. Just let the lady know, when you are underway, what you would like.

Just talk to the provider your preferences
No worries!!
no pressure

kisses
Carla

Some people do. Some people dont.

No harm.  No foul.

I prefer not to, and typically I just don't say anything, the provider generally just goes with the flow and does what you want her to do.  

I like to believe the providers I've seen can read minds like Jedi's because I don't recall ever having to say anything, but I always leave light headed like they sucked my brains.  No pun intended really.

Wow!!  Now that would be hot!

Some ladies just kinda lose themselves when they're getting all worked up.