I have experience and have set many meetings without trouble .
The other day one girl asked me to confirm and I said sounds good lets do it with a smile .
Now I was just saying its a go could she have interpreted it in another way that meant yea baby lets have sex ?

  I even was nice and said I had established references .
 I am thinking she was too paranoid and had no reviews on TER so I am better off
JeZZ I was singing paranoia will destroy yea
Sorry about the rant but was I out of line ?

...You'd be paranoid too.

Just be cool and don't make any sudden moves lmfao.

Oh so your saying ''lets do it'' cannot be   construed as ITs a go .
Damn I did not say birds and bees do it  

Just confirm the meeting, and do not let your exuberance get the best of you.  If you become a repeat/regular client, then you can relax a little bit with the lady.  But never on a first encounter...

I have been doing this for years .I think the gal was kinda paranoid but wanted to hear what others  said since I was in a rant mode       Like I said I would think she would have checked my very solid refernces so I am not losing sleep over it

I have read a few of your statements and I can see why you come off wrong. I think you are abbrasive and I'd hang up on you too.

Yep ,I admit I am  arrogant ,mea culpa
and I smoothed it out ,rant over

I try to error on the side of caution, I stick with the old "just the facts maam" type exchange when it comes to contacting a provider. I am careful to avoid saying anything that might cause any uneccesary scrutiny.

True girls have a reason to want to be careful and to be critical of certain statements or vibes.

But gents also have the right to be just as careful when it comes to unreviewed providers. We can encounter LE,scammers, and even violence just as easily as providers can.

I don't think your comments were out of line and your probably right, your better off sticking with reviewed providers.

oh yes,
women re ten times more likely to become the victim of a violent crime

sorry guys but it is a fact and then reporting it is another issue.,

Ok I am wrong there, not as likely as providers are. But men are sometimes subject to robberies by people setting them up with ads.

Though I must say those gents could have avoided the situation most of the time by simply avoiding sites like craigs list altogether.

There's something that's very rarely considered and that's that folks act differently with different people.  Checking references means that person is more likely legit and probably knows how to behave with a women in closed quarters.  But we, providers on the whole, are very familiar with the guy who is a great and respected client to many but an asshole to some.  They try to get over on new girls especially.  It's a business of risk management, not elimination and it is duplicitous by nature.   So while it's great that you have those solid references, really great, there are still somethings that some folks do that will make a provider look at you a little closer or deny service.  Just based on a gut feeling or something silly the person would say or the way they behaved in communications.  We have to follow our gut instincts in this job.  I don't know if that was the case, I'm just sayin'.